Author Woggle Posted August 9, 2005 Author Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru what does that mean??? lol.. sorry.. latina here thats never hear that word. A misandrist is a woman that hates men.
DacaInaru Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle A misandrist is a woman that hates men. AH>. well then.. we've all been that at one time or another..
Author Woggle Posted August 9, 2005 Author Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru AH>. well then.. we've all been that at one time or another.. Well then why can't cut men who are misogynistic for a while some slack? Women are so defensive even when you make it clear you are not talking about all women.
scratch Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Outcast First find a misandristic woman on LS. The handy-dandy search function turned up about about a dozen threads titled with a variant of "men suck" or "I hate men." Perhaps those were just men posting as double agents to make it appear that there are man-hating females here, but I'll assume not for the time being.
Outcast Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Those tend to be rants. People who are momentarily frustrated, not people who have adopted misandry as a long-term way of life.
Author Woggle Posted August 9, 2005 Author Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Outcast Those tend to be rants. People who are momentarily frustrated, not people who have adopted misandry as a long-term way of life. The majority of women are long term misandrists.
loony Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle Part of my job is to schmooze with people so I meet many women and I have a few that hit me off. I work with the chamber of commerce for my area and I meet many business women. I don't have any pictures. The biggest irony is that these independent business women are usually the ones who fall the easiest for men that use them. Buddy, you're not a user. You're not unscrupulous enough to use the dumb nice women who could fall for you and you're too bitter to make the smart women fall for you. Originally posted by scratch While I don't necessarily disagree with it, what is the basis for your supposition that men who are bitter or cynical towards women have sex with fewer women than men who are optimistic and willing to open their hearts? Bitterness is a real turnoff. Those people just can't hide it and even when they tried to it would creep out of every pore of their being. When a man posts something misogynistic, a common refrain from women here is "you're just mad because nobody will bang you." Ironically (and tangentially), I've yet to see a post directed at an misandristic woman to the effect of "you need to get laid." I hope this was not directed at me because I absolutely do not think he needs to get laid. His problem is not about sex or not sex because his bitterness doesn't come from lack of sex. One day he will realize that his anger doesn't serve anything and is unjustified because a lot of women out there have also reasons to be bitter and it's a shame when a guy runs around and claims that the majority of women is evil just because he bad experiences with a couple of them (or with one, his wife).
Author Woggle Posted August 9, 2005 Author Posted August 9, 2005 I am not bitter. In fact I couldn't be happier.
DacaInaru Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 The different between Men who Hate women and Women who hate men.. at least this is my view.. is that men who hate women Use women for sex, games or whatever.. Women who hate men.. do it the right way.. they just avoid the men completely.. lol.. or at least that what I do when i'm in my Misandristic mode of life.
Author Woggle Posted August 9, 2005 Author Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru The different between Men who Hate women and Women who hate men.. at least this is my view.. is that men who hate women Use women for sex, games or whatever.. Women who hate men.. do it the right way.. they just avoid the men completely.. lol.. or at least that what I do when i'm in my Misandristic mode of life. I know plenty of misandrists who use men. Most goldiggers hate men. There are many women who get off on hurting men. I actuallly don't lie to women. I tell them I use them for sex and somehow they think they can change me. I am a challenge to them.
alphamale Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru .. Women who hate men.. do it the right way.. they just avoid the men completely.. lol.. or at least that what I do when i'm in my Misandristic mode of life. that is total B.S. and very naive DACAINARU. Women who hate men use and abuse them and take them for every frikkin' penny they have. They'll play head games with the men and then discard them like yestedays newspaper. If you think that women don't do to men what men do to women then you've been living under a rock for the last 10,000 yrs...
DacaInaru Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 I tell them I use them for sex and somehow they think they can change me. I am a challenge to them. thats like when I tell men I don't have casual sex and they insist on meeting me.. we meet and then they are shocked that I won't have sex with them.. I guess people like a challenge..
scratch Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by loony Bitterness is a real turnoff. Those people just can't hide it and even when they tried to it would creep out of every pore of their being. I agree, but bitterness is a matter of degree. I am bitter and cynical to the extent that I arrange most first and second dates to coincide with things I would have done anyway, e.g. go for a run, hang out at a bar with friends, or watch a ballgame, because I don't always expect the woman to show up. However, if she does I make a good faith effort to show her a good time. Do I exude bitterness? Probably, but only if the woman is really looking for it, which would make her bitter and cynical too, no? Originally posted by loony I hope this was not directed at me because I absolutely do not think he needs to get laid. His problem is not about sex or not sex because his bitterness doesn't come from lack of sex. One day he will realize that his anger doesn't serve anything and is unjustified because a lot of women out there have also reasons to be bitter and it's a shame when a guy runs around and claims that the majority of women is evil just because he bad experiences with a couple of them (or with one, his wife). You said he couldn't get laid, but as I said, it's a common refrain among many women here. Maybe this is Woggle's place to rant and vent. So long as he explains himself and his reasoning, that's okay with me.
Author Woggle Posted August 9, 2005 Author Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale that is total B.S. and very naive DACAINARU. Women who hate men use and abuse them and take them for every frikkin' penny they have. They'll play head games with the men and then discard them like yestedays newspaper. If you think that women don't do to men what men do to women then you've been living under a rock for the last 10,000 yrs... Very true. Women who financially rape men in court most likekly hate men. They view men as disposable things to be used. My ex tried to take me to the cleaners in court even though she cheated on me. I got a pitbull men;s rights lawyer and told her that we could have a nice quick divorce or I would turn it into world war 3. The choice was hers and she decided not to rape me in court. When my lawyer was done I actually could have gotten alimony from her since I payed for her education and she cheated on me but I chose to be merciful. I don't want to live off another person like a parasite.
DacaInaru Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 wow.. its refreshing to see men as bitter as most women are..
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by scratch I agree, but bitterness is a matter of degree. I am bitter and cynical to the extent that I arrange most first and second dates to coincide with things I would have done anyway, e.g. go for a run, hang out at a bar with friends, or watch a ballgame, because I don't always expect the woman to show up. However, if she does I make a good faith effort to show her a good time. Do I exude bitterness? Probably, but only if the woman is really looking for it, which would make her bitter and cynical too, no? It's not a date if you ask a woman to "show up". It's a date if you PICK her up at her place and TAKE her somewhere nice.
alphamale Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 It's not a date if you ask a woman to "show up". It's a date if you PICK her up at her place and TAKE her somewhere nice. bullkrap it is not MWC_LBA40....the techical definition of a "date" is when two people agree to meet and do some activity together at the same general point in time and at fairly the same point in the universe. it does not matter how one gets to both points in time and space.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 To me, Alpha, that would be "hanging out" and that is not dating.....it's in the book!
Opium Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle Never beg a woman to love you-If she leaves she leaves. Don't perform grand gestures for her and don't beg her to take you back. It only makes you look pathetic. Have some self respect and tel her to go ahead and leave and get on with your life. Never change who you are for a woman-What women want from a man seems to change daily so stop driving yourself crazy trying to bend and twist yourselves to what oprah and cosmo say is the ideal man. Just be yourself and find a woman who accepts you for it. It may take longer to find this woman but she will be worth the wait. Always have a backbone-One of the most important things in a relationship is that the woman in your life respect you. If she doesn't respect you everything ele falls in place. Always stand up for yourself and demand to be treated right and if she won't treat you the way deserve kick her to curb. This metrosexual neutered spinless man trend needs to stop right now. Learn to be happy without a woman-When you learn to be happy in your own it allows you to find the right instead of settling for the wrong relationships. Be happy without a woman and when you find the right one she will add to your happiness. If you don't you can still live a happy full life as a single man. Look at her mother-There are always exceptions to every rule but f you want to see what a woman will be like when she is 20 years older look at her mother. Never date a woman that divorced her husband for any reason other than infidelity or abuse-If she left her husband over superficial reasons she will leave you for those same reasons. Never date a woman who took alot of women's studies courses in college-They teach women to hate men in those courses. Radical feminists make the worst girlfriends and wives. She will always view you with at least a little contempt. Also never date a woman who uses the word patriarchy. Never date a woman with an out of wedlock child-Either she made some really bad choices and got knocked up or she had the child by choice and views men as nothing more than sperm donors. Either way you want nothing to do with her. Never date a materialistic woman-Trust me she will always put her stuff before you. Never date a woman with a lot of mood swings-Never date a moody woman who always blames it on her harmones. It will get worse if you marry her. She will hate you for 1 week and even sometimes 2 weeks out of the month. She will yell and scream and throw things at you. Pass on this type of woman. So you're basically saying be GAY cause woman are never satisfied and all we do is nag, and of course men don't do none of these things. Good advice!
Author Woggle Posted August 9, 2005 Author Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale bullkrap it is not MWC_LBA40....the techical definition of a "date" is when two people agree to meet and do some activity together at the same general point in time and at fairly the same point in the universe. it does not matter how one gets to both points in time and space. Yeah but many women want to be treated like princesses and have their asses kissed and all that. They still want men to pay on dates as well. Women are independent when it's convenient.
DacaInaru Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 To me, Alpha, that would be "hanging out" and that is not dating.....it's in the book! there's a book??????????????? goodness.. have i been doing it wrong all these years???? lol.. sigh.. uh were can I get a copy of that darn book
Author Woggle Posted August 9, 2005 Author Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Opium So you're basically saying be GAY cause woman are never satisfied and all we do is nag, and of course men don't do none of these things. Good advice! No date a woman who doesn't do any of these things. They are rare but they do exist. Finding a good woman is like digging through a bowl of rotten fruit and finding a nice delicious shiny apple.
RecordProducer Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer Is this dating advice or a survival guide? You gave me a good laugh, Western! :lmao: :lmao:
DacaInaru Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Finding a good woman is like digging through a bowl of rotten fruit and finding a nice delicious shiny apple. Uh.. problem is that guys like to look at the outside of the apple and if it has flaws they toss it aside. they pick up that nice shine red apple.. not knowing that when you bite into it.. you might just find a worm.
RecordProducer Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle No date a woman who doesn't do any of these things. They are rare but they do exist. Finding a good woman is like digging through a bowl of rotten fruit and finding a nice delicious shiny apple. Okay, I have no right to do this, but I'll still ask: what do YOU have to offer this great-and-so-hard-to-find woman?
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