alphamale Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Moose You don't think that when you tell these woman they're disposable, or just a sex toy, this doesn't harm them? You don't think that your overall treatment of women isn't damaging? of course it is harmful and that is the point....when I was a "nice guy" a long long time ago there was much psychological trauma inflicted on me by females. they took advantage of me, they used me, they made fun of me. etc.... well they also created me in my current incarnation. I will never let another female use me or abuse me or take advantage of me. I'll kick her ass out on the curb first. now it is payback time. Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle The funny thing is that ever since I developed this new outlook things have been going great in my life. I landed a great job and I am making good money I played the stocks well and made a fortune I have the house almost paid off I am not even 30 yet and in about 2 years I will have no more mortgage on my house. I am eating healthier and taking better care of myself Life could not be better. That has nothing to do with how you treat women. It has everything to do with your refusal of being walked on anymore....that's it. You can be indepenent and still treat women with respect. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Moose You don't think that when you tell these woman they're disposable, or just a sex toy, this doesn't harm them? You don't think that your overall treatment of women isn't damaging? These women that you and alpha seem to think are attracted to a**h***s aren't healthy to begin with. They are co-dependants, you are the enablers......it's damaging all the way around...... If i tell them they are disposable and they still fallf or me they are already messed up. Nothing to do with me. The funny thing is that this one woman is a very successful business woman and she is begging me to be exculsive with her. She is ms powerful in the boardroom but I have her wrapped aound my finger. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Star Gazer None of these things matter if you don't have an open heart. Yes they do. I care deeply about my friends and family. I am happier than almost all my married friends or friends in relationships. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Star Gazer Why do you have an atomic/nuclear bomb in your avatar? I couldn't find any other good image that small. It is kinda fitting with the 60th anniversary of Hiroshima though. That wasn't the reason I did it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Star Gazer I have to assume then that none of your friends or family are female. Nah I have an aunt that is one of the greatest human beings I know. Link to post Share on other sites
DacaInaru Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle Nah I have an aunt that is one of the greatest human beings I know. would you want her to be treated the way you treat women? Link to post Share on other sites
A Fly onThe Wall Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru would you want her to be treated the way you treat women? That kind of thinking isn't going to work with woogle Link to post Share on other sites
Opium Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by Woggle The funny thing is that ever since I developed this new outlook things have been going great in my life. I landed a great job and I am making good money I played the stocks well and made a fortune I have the house almost paid off I am not even 30 yet and in about 2 years I will have no more mortgage on my house. I am eating healthier and taking better care of myself Life could not be better. I'm sorry but this isn't because you've changed your attitude toward woman. It's because you've changed your attitude about life and took your head out of your azz and started doing something about it. The woman was just a push to get you to do what it is you really wanted to do. Landed a job? Your resume was probably good and you fit well for the position! Played stocks? Lucky mothaf***er! House almost payed off? How long have you been paying for it? Did you refinance, or came up with some money from the stocks? Eating healthier? Because you want to feel better about yourself and look good! None of these reasons you gave are because you've changed your attitude about WOMAN it's because you made a change within yourself to make you a better person. You just have this grudge against woman and if you continue you're going to let a good one go. Link to post Share on other sites
clandestinidad Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Will SOMEONE answer my question?!?!?!??!?!?!?!??!?! It wasnt rhetorical, I am really wondering where you stand in it So what, these people who got pregnant and didnt have abortions to get rid of it are somehow WORSE than those who DID get rid of it?!?!?!? As if its better to date them b/c they dont have evidence of having sex?!?! (even though they might be the bigger slut/whore) And your advice to men is that its better to date a girl that killed her child/fetus, rather than one who is sacrificing her life and living her life for her child?!?!?!? COME ON!!!! I'd still like to know if ya'll would prefer dating a woman who's had abortions....b/c then she doesnt have the horrible child-baggage edit to add: Also, how would you KNOW if she ever got pregnant and killed the child/fetus!!? You'd probably be dating someone who DID make bad choices (getting pregnant, abortions (if you consider that a bad choice or not), etc etc) but you wouldnt know, b/c "well, she doesnt have kids, so I'll date her".....duuuuuhh.....get a clue Besides the fact that no one, namely YOU since you were the OP, has answered my question (which I've asked twice) about women who've had abortions as opposed to women who actually kept their children....do you think that's better than dating someone with kids?! (there, now its been 3 times, and hopefully you'll address it now) So, for the 4th time.....do you think its better to date a woman who's had 1 or more abortions, than a woman who actually kept them???? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by kat23 So, for the 4th time.....do you think its better to date a woman who's had 1 or more abortions, than a woman who actually kept them???? I'd go with the abortion lady. Its easier to be spontaneous with a woman who has no kids... Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale I'd go with the abortion lady. Its easier to be spontaneous with a woman who has no kids... Ha! I won't tell you the reason cause I'm sure you can guess......but I'm almost glad you anserwed this the way you did......... Link to post Share on other sites
clandestinidad Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Okay...thanks, alpha.....now what about woggle Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru would you want her to be treated the way you treat women? No but she wouldn't put up with it anyway. She waited until 38 to get married so she isn't the type that would settle for anything. If I met a truly good woman right now I would tell her that right now I can't trust a woman and she deserves better than me. I would not string her along. She always made sure my father and I were doing okay though. She is probably one of the reasons why I believe some exceptions do exist and why I didn't turn into some Ted Bundy type serial killer. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by kat23 Okay...thanks, alpha.....now what about woggle Okay I will answer this. I would not date either one for anything serious. I think abortion should be legal but I don't agree with it and I would not want to date a woman that had one. I would date a woman that used birth control or made him wear a condom though. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 Oh goody. Recipe for a serial killler: My father raised me all on his own because she decided she needed to find herself. I will never forgive my mother telling me that I am the garbage leftover from before she found herself. My former live in girlfriend that tried to press domestic abuse charges against me even though all the abuse was ta her hands. I never once hit her Oh right. Just like another poster on here claiming he's not violent because he 'only pushed her and she fell and hit her head' and then said it would be her killing herself if she had died. All you have to do is use the words 'bitches and whores' when speaking about women and we'll have to send people looking for the remnants of missing women to your place. always say there are exceptions and that is why I say that if what I say does not apply to a woman she should not take offense because I am not talking about her. I've yet to see that. Link to post Share on other sites
clandestinidad Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 and as of yet, woggle has not answered my question Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 I never pushed or hit my ex. After a while I started yelling back at her but I never hit her. I have done man things inmy life that I regret but abusing women is not one of them. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Woggle Posted August 11, 2005 Author Share Posted August 11, 2005 Originally posted by kat23 and as of yet, woggle has not answered my question I just answered it. I said neither one. If I had to choose I would say a woman that kept it because she chose to face her responsibility but neither one would be my first choice. Link to post Share on other sites
clandestinidad Posted August 11, 2005 Share Posted August 11, 2005 oh yeah...I just saw the other one. very sorry about that well thanks for answering ya'll.....its good to know where people are coming from Link to post Share on other sites
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