arbyone Posted June 27, 2016 Posted June 27, 2016 Hey, all. I have a girl who I've been friends with for over 10 years. She's one of my best friends in the world. Tbh, she is the love of my life. All of my friends say they can see a sexual tension between us, we've kissed a few times but have never had sex. When she gets really drunk she will start crying and talking about how much she loves me and never wants to lose me. She's never liked any of the girls I've dated and gets jealous when I go out with someone new. I dated one of her best friends last year, and she told me that if I was with her, that we couldn't be friends anymore, which was weird. I don't know if she loves me just as hard as I love her, or what. The thing is, she has a boyfriend rn and I like him he's one of my friends now too. I just feel like, deep down I'm going to end up with her one day, but how do you navigate a situation like this and risk losing a lifelong friendship?
Jhen29 Posted June 28, 2016 Posted June 28, 2016 Try to talk to her ask her what she really feel for you?Just be honest to her?
Zippy2000 Posted June 29, 2016 Posted June 29, 2016 You`ve been friends for 10 years? If it hasnt happned now it never will. You are just a friend and nothing more.
Ensam Posted June 29, 2016 Posted June 29, 2016 I'm not sure how in 10 years time the topic of your true feelings towards each other hasn't come up. I mean if you are that fond of each other, it would seem natural one of you had brought it up during this time. I would say though that what has happened has already happened so you got nothing to lose here. If she has similar feelings for you the friendship will probably come crashing down at some point regardless of what you do so you might as well confess to her and see if there's any possibility of you two getting together. If she doesn't feel the same way, there's still the chance of salvaging the friendship if you can stand with just being her friend. 1
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