Blablah111 Posted June 26, 2016 Posted June 26, 2016 So.. I broke up with my boyfriend with whom i ve been for like 6 months.. (long distance relationship). We are both the kind of people who never really open up, he would just give me signs like sending a love song or playing it in the car, or saying things in a subtle way.. but he has always shown his respect for me and invest effort in our relationship. I broke up with him and for the first time i opened up like '' i really do care a lot about you but i can t do this anymore blablah''... his reaction was (after 3 hours) '' if that s what you want ok'' and I replied ''i don t want this, but this is what i have to do'' ... and he hasn t written a word ever since... why? Is it ego or he simply doesn t really care? 1
katiegrl Posted June 26, 2016 Posted June 26, 2016 So.. I broke up with my boyfriend with whom i ve been for like 6 months.. (long distance relationship). We are both the kind of people who never really open up, he would just give me signs like sending a love song or playing it in the car, or saying things in a subtle way.. but he has always shown his respect for me and invest effort in our relationship. I broke up with him and for the first time i opened up like '' i really do care a lot about you but i can t do this anymore blablah''... his reaction was (after 3 hours) '' if that s what you want ok'' and I replied ''i don t want this, but this is what i have to do'' ... and he hasn t written a word ever since... why? Is it ego or he simply doesn t really care? Why did you break up with him? To get a reaction? Like some sort of shyt test? What did you expect him to do, fall to pieces? Beg for you back? Seriously, I don't understand. "I don't want this, but this is what I have to do." What is that? Honestly, if this is how you communicate, he prob feels break up is for the best. I am sorry though....best of luck moving forward. 1
frus69 Posted June 26, 2016 Posted June 26, 2016 Why did you break up with him? To get a reaction? Like some sort of shyt test? What did you expect him to do, fall to pieces? Beg for you back? Seriously, I don't understand. "I don't want this, but this is what I have to do." What is that? Honestly, if this is how you communicate, he prob feels break up is for the best. I am sorry though....best of luck moving forward. I guess OP wanted him to ask "why what happened what do you want me to do" But OP breaking up with him is not the way to open up. Yes you need to work on your communication 1
Author Blablah111 Posted June 26, 2016 Author Posted June 26, 2016 Why did you break up with him? To get a reaction? Like some sort of shyt test? What did you expect him to do, fall to pieces? Beg for you back? Seriously, I don't understand. "I don't want this, but this is what I have to do." What is that? Honestly, if this is how you communicate, he prob feels break up is for the best. I am sorry though....best of luck moving forward. No it wasn't a test... it was just me giving up because it was tireing... still his reaction shocked me 1
katiegrl Posted June 26, 2016 Posted June 26, 2016 No it wasn't a test... it was just me giving up because it was tireing... still his reaction shocked me Can you clarify what was so tiring? Were you fighting a lot? My guess is he feels it was for the best.... whatever it was. Obviously you weren't happy, right? He was probably unmotivated to change anything. So chose to just accept it and move on. Just speculating though, don't have much to work with here. 1
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