oman0115 Posted June 26, 2016 Posted June 26, 2016 Blocked the girl who dumped me on Facebook 4 weeks ago and she confronted me on it on Friday. Is this usual? We broke up last summer and I've said roughly 6 times int he space of 6 months I don't want to be her friend I still have feelings and need to move on. I broke NC replying to her with a nice text saying I care to much and need to stop thinking about her if she wants nothing off me. She was confrontational, called me pathetic and had a very angry and hostile demeanour about it. Why would she care we speak once every 3 weeks tops, and never see each other and she's in a relationship, knows I'm seeing someone and trying to move on. Why the anger?
Rainah Posted June 26, 2016 Posted June 26, 2016 She's angry because you took away her bottle so she's having a tantrum. Basically she is selfish and is angry your not wrapped around her little finger anymore and having the balls to walk away. She wants you to be suffering and crying over her and because she's seeing your not she is angry and calls you all names under the sun. 2
DKT3 Posted June 26, 2016 Posted June 26, 2016 ∆∆∆∆∆This Your not chasing her, she thought you would be falling over yourself at any crumbs she tossed out. It's a reality check for her. With a side of her wondering if you like the new girl more, who I'm betting is either better looking or smaller or both.
Nowty V Posted June 26, 2016 Posted June 26, 2016 yeah?... pass the beer-nuts.. Close your ears to it, smile and nod... when she's finished blowing off thank her, turn and walk away .. anything she does after this is violating your Human Rights ... say not another word to her .. if she persists phone some help for the stalker.
Alamo657 Posted June 26, 2016 Posted June 26, 2016 Blocked the girl who dumped me on Facebook 4 weeks ago and she confronted me on it on Friday. Is this usual? We broke up last summer and I've said roughly 6 times int he space of 6 months I don't want to be her friend I still have feelings and need to move on. I broke NC replying to her with a nice text saying I care to much and need to stop thinking about her if she wants nothing off me. She was confrontational, called me pathetic and had a very angry and hostile demeanour about it. Why would she care we speak once every 3 weeks tops, and never see each other and she's in a relationship, knows I'm seeing someone and trying to move on. Why the anger? Possessivity. Prevalent in narcissist people who want the world to revolve around them, and don't care about other people feelings, but only their own. If she doesn't control you, you're at best an enemy, at worst nothing.
Author oman0115 Posted June 27, 2016 Author Posted June 27, 2016 She's angry because you took away her bottle so she's having a tantrum. Basically she is selfish and is angry your not wrapped around her little finger anymore and having the balls to walk away. She wants you to be suffering and crying over her and because she's seeing your not she is angry and calls you all names under the sun. Walking away is the hardest thing I've ever had to do, she knows i love her. I agree about the selfish part because if she truly cared she'd realise I'm doing this to protect my heart. When a dumper dates someone else but can't let you go it messes with your head, you ask an obscene amount of questions. Facebook was a way for her to keep tabs and look into my life without making any really effort. She seems upset I've taken that away from her.
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