sunshine2 Posted June 25, 2016 Posted June 25, 2016 Ive been talking to a guy for over a year online. We met on a OLD site and connected on Facebook after that. We have had pauses here and there. I was dating someone for a year and when we reconnected, he had told me he had been dating a gal for 6 months during that same year. I stopped contacting him while I was dating because I was in a relationship and felt that was best. We reconnected about 2 months ago on FB and have been chatting, video chatting, sharing photos of animals, family, scenery, all that stuff and lately, we have been talking more intimately. We live about 2 1/2 hours away from each other, so I consider that long distance. We have talked about meeting soon. Whats happening for me is Im getting attached to him, I really didn't think that would happen, but it has. When I don't hear from him for a few days, I will reach out because I am concerned that he is drifting away again or that he is dating someone. I so embarrassed to say that because he is not my BF and we are not dating, but sharing so much with each other makes it feel to me like we are. I've read so many posts here and on other forums that long distance relationships are hard or are just fantasies and not something to really take seriously. I was hoping just to keep it in the friend zone, but again I feel like I am getting attached. When I see post on FB with other women complimenting him or saying stuff like I miss you... I get upset. Right now I am upset about a comment on FB and I feel like for my own sanity I need to just let this go. Im not sure I have any questions, but my concern is that he may be talking to lots of women sharing the same things and telling them they are beautiful like he does with me although I have no proof. I have asked him not so directly if I am one of many and he says no. In all honesty, he can do whatever he wants and so can I. Do I walk away or try to just see where this leads?
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