striker55 Posted June 25, 2016 Posted June 25, 2016 Hello Everyone I am jason and I need your help regarding friendship relationship. I am student in university and I found friend in class and her name is Emily. She is good girl and after becoming her friend I did care her, helped her in her assignment, quizzes and in final exam as well and finally she became my best friend. after university we used to connect on social media platforms facebook by messaging. we feel good to spend time with each other. after 4 months suddenly she is getting avoiding me. and I asked her is there any issue so we can discuss about it and I say sorry. she said there is nothing But I can read her behavior because she is avoiding me. Now she starts talking with some selected boys whose are bad so I feel jealous and I told her that these boys are not good boys these are bad because I listen that they were talking bad about you. be careful she said there would be some misunderstanding they are good. I felt very disheart at that time. Now I am avoiding her Because she doest not want my existence around her. If I did wrong so please tell me what I have to do? To get her back in my life...
Author striker55 Posted June 25, 2016 Author Posted June 25, 2016 I am not gay, I am a guy and i want her back what do i do to attract her on my side I love her and I want to marry with her
preraph Posted June 25, 2016 Posted June 25, 2016 She figured out you weren't her friend and were actually just posing as her friend but were really romantically interested in her, and that creeped her out. And then you being possessive and critical about her liking some guys was the final straw. She knew she had to cut you off or you'd interfere and just keep trying with her. You weren't honest and you made her uncomfortable when she realized the truth.
Author striker55 Posted June 25, 2016 Author Posted June 25, 2016 She figured out you weren't her friend and were actually just posing as her friend but were really romantically interested in her, and that creeped her out. And then you being possessive and critical about her liking some guys was the final straw. She knew she had to cut you off or you'd interfere and just keep trying with her. You weren't honest and you made her uncomfortable when she realized the truth. How can i move on, she is my class fellow and whenever I see her I got remember all the memorable moments what i spend with her. I am very sensitive person and When I got attached with any environment so it is very hard to leave that. I am getting hurt day by day and thinking about her more whenever she talks with other boys I really got hurt because I feel bad whenever my close friend ignoring me and giving importance to someone else. What do i do?
elaine567 Posted June 25, 2016 Posted June 25, 2016 If you want her as your gf, then you need to tell her how you feel, you may get rejected, but that is the risk you take. If you do not want to do that, then keep out of her way. Your "friendship", such as it was is gone.
Heracles Posted June 25, 2016 Posted June 25, 2016 (edited) She figured out you weren't her friend and were actually just posing as her friend but were really romantically interested in her, and that creeped her out. [] Women aren't stupid. They can figure out a guy's intentions from a mile away and they know for a fact when a guy is into them. Usually, they will let the help them in all sorts of ways, use him an emotional tampon and when they have nothing to gain from him anymore, coupled with the fact that the poor sap finally found the courage to make a move, they act all offended and spew this c.r.a.p. And every time a woman says that, I wait for somebody to address it and nobody does. OP: you are not getting her back. She was never sexually attracted to you. Those guys that you claim are bad, she gravitates around them because she wants them to f.u.c.k her. The only way you get to marry her is after she is done getting ran through by all of them, getting old and looking for some chump to pays for her way while she is having kids or after she has become a single mother. I wish I could help you understand. You are too naive and too emotionally pliable. [] Edited June 26, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Language and tone 1
preraph Posted June 26, 2016 Posted June 26, 2016 How can i move on, she is my class fellow and whenever I see her I got remember all the memorable moments what i spend with her. I am very sensitive person and When I got attached with any environment so it is very hard to leave that. I am getting hurt day by day and thinking about her more whenever she talks with other boys I really got hurt because I feel bad whenever my close friend ignoring me and giving importance to someone else. What do i do? That's up to you to deal with. You'll have to intentionally direct your focus elsewhere instead of stubbornly pursuing her or thinking about her, and that takes self-discipline. That's what it takes. It's all up to you how long you decide to stay miserable. You should tap all your friends and get them to do out and do things with you and not talk about her and stop thinking about her (that is all within your control -- you've just never wanted to try it) and make a new focus and move forward in your life. Sorry for your loss. Harboring crushes on people who think you're "just friends" rarely ever works out any way but disastrous.
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