Pierian Posted June 25, 2016 Posted June 25, 2016 I have been dating this girl for 5 months. Everything has been great. It feels different with her, we both feel lucky to spend time together. I really hope the relationship works out. How do you keep a girl that you like interested? What are the things that we can do or not to do? We are in our 30s, we both had long term relationships in our 20s. We are going traveling together for the first time next week. We are both independent people, building our new businesses. We see each other about 3 days week. It is new to the both of us, to have someone in our lives again. I just want to make sure that I do the right thing. Any advice will be really appreciated.
Gaeta Posted June 25, 2016 Posted June 25, 2016 There is no 'one answer fits all'. We are all individuals therefore we all need something different in our relationship. Just be yourself and let it unfold naturally. You don't need to do anything special to keep her interested other then be you.
Gaeta Posted June 25, 2016 Posted June 25, 2016 I just read your last thread that is dated a few days ago. If I were you I would not go on a trip around Europe with a woman still on a dating site. Not wanting a label after 5 months dating is a huge red flag. You know it's not right but you're in denial.
smackie9 Posted June 25, 2016 Posted June 25, 2016 IMO you should NOT take this relationship too seriously at this time. Don't force it to keep it...just go with the flow and see where it will take you. That is all you can do at this point. If it works out, great. If it doesn't then it just wasn't meant to be. You can't create forever but keeping things interesting, or motivate feelings....that isn't how it works when finding a life partner. They need to accept you for who you are or it will be a constant struggle to hold it together.
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