brothers343 Posted June 26, 2016 Posted June 26, 2016 Even the most attractive people have experienced rejection and fear.......all mere mortals have to go through this process. You need to learn that and printed in your mind. Good luck. 1
Author chumly Posted July 1, 2016 Author Posted July 1, 2016 thanks for the added response! I know rejection is just a part of life that I have to learn to deal with. I suppose you are all correct when you say i just have to go out and feel the fear anyway but do it! the good thing is that most of the people I will wind up meeting will be those I feel are good people after several conversations. I try and be very careful to only put myself out to those that think in a similar way to myself. Thanks again for all the help:)
Redhead14 Posted July 1, 2016 Posted July 1, 2016 thanks for the added response! I know rejection is just a part of life that I have to learn to deal with. I suppose you are all correct when you say i just have to go out and feel the fear anyway but do it! the good thing is that most of the people I will wind up meeting will be those I feel are good people after several conversations. I try and be very careful to only put myself out to those that think in a similar way to myself. Thanks again for all the help:) "Fear does not control me . . . I face it so as to control it"
Alirocks Posted July 1, 2016 Posted July 1, 2016 The key to rejection, is not caring, you go into it with confidence, with not a care in the world about weather you are rejected. Being rejected sometimes is not personal. A person knows if they are ugly or not just as a person knows if they have "a type." That type can be a brunette vs. red head, and rejection could just be as simple as that. NOT that they reject you because they don't like you, or you aren't pretty enough. it just simply comes down to what guys like, or what type they're attracted to. Attraction is the key to anything. if you don't like someone based on the way they look, then you are't going to be into them, and just because you're not attracted to someone doesn't mean that person is not attractive.. its a personal preference. So, if your fear steams from thinking that you are not attractive enough, don't worry about it. Everything happens for a reason. Someone you're supposed to be with will show up. I vote for the good ol' meet in person. Trust me I've done the online thing.. nothing creepers... and liars. Good luck!
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