Lois_Griffin Posted June 28, 2016 Posted June 28, 2016 He blocked me in January and said to get out of his life because he was in love with someone else. A few days ago I realized he had unblocked me. What does this mean? What does it mean? It probably means he was telling his buddies at the bar about this desperate, needy, pride-less girl that he treated like complete dogsh*t who keeps humiliating herself reaching out to him. When his buddies couldn't believe that anyone would be that desperate, he unblocked you knowing you'd humiliate yourself yet again trying to 'catch up' with him so he could prove to them he was telling the truth. Seriously, where is your self respect?
Scarlett.O'hara Posted June 28, 2016 Posted June 28, 2016 He blocked me in January and said to get out of his life because he was in love with someone else. A few days ago I realized he had unblocked me. What does this mean? I can only assume given your backstory that initially he blocked you for fear of getting caught by his new girlfriend, but it didn't take long for his wandering eye to return. He probably unblocked you to see if there were any new photos, just to please himself. He sounds like a very selfish individual so I would caution you not to read anything positive into this. This guy likes to cheat and it possibly excites him to think of all the other woman he has slept with or would like to have sex with. I can understand that this may have messed with your head but please don't allow your emotions overtake your common sense. This guy has nothing positive to offer you, only hurt. No good will come from seeing his family either. It will do more damage. Blocking them will not look dramatic, it will just let them know that you do not want further contact. Mature adults will accept that fact and move on.
Author paige_k Posted July 20, 2016 Author Posted July 20, 2016 he cheated on me and kept it a secret for a month, then told me and dumped me, immediately started dating another girl and had sex with her, led me on and told me we would get back together and he'd always love me, admitted to using me for sex and said he had been cheating on his other girlfriend with me, then said I should get out of his life and he blocked me on social media. a few days ago i was checking Facebook and i realized he unblocked me. what does it mean?
Stercrazy Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 It means he unblocked you. Nothing more nothing less. 1
basil67 Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 (edited) Go back and reread all the excellent advice on the last thread you wrote. I can only reiterate that you need to take control and remove him from your life. This includes unfriending him on social media Edited July 20, 2016 by basil67
PegNosePete Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 It means you should've blocked him, so you wouldn't be wondering what is going on in your cheating ex's head. Ignorance is bliss. 2
stillafool Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 It means he just unblocked you nothing more. It doesn't mean he loves you and is sorry for the horrible way he has treated you. He has moved on and wants you to do the same. If he told you to "get a life" why are you checking his FB?
Giggles666 Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 //but why did he unblock me?// So you could block him and move on with your life, guy sounds like loser so forget him. Get some self-respect and some self-esteem and forget about this jerk.
Zahara Posted July 20, 2016 Posted July 20, 2016 he cheated on me and kept it a secret for a month, then told me and dumped me, immediately started dating another girl and had sex with her, led me on and told me we would get back together and he'd always love me, admitted to using me for sex and said he had been cheating on his other girlfriend with me, then said I should get out of his life and he blocked me on social media. a few days ago i was checking Facebook and i realized he unblocked me. what does it mean? Your thread a month ago about the same thing provided you with good advice. Go back and read it and place importance on why someone that treated you so poorly is still part of your thought process. 5
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