Trying to Work Past my BF's Drunken Cheating Incident, Not Sure If I Should

[greenly24]

I'm sorry you got into this whole mess because it sounds like things were going good before. Still, even though you feel like you're a worrier, it's best to trust your gut. If you're feeling anxious and uneasy about the situation, those feelings aren't coming out of nowhere.

[Lady Hamilton]

He's too drunk and high to know if he's making out with somebody but not too drunk or high to text you?

 

If it were me, I'd have dumped him as soon as I found out about the drugs.

[seamos]

He went and partied because he wanted to. He kissed another girl because he wanted to, he also lied to you because he wanted to...

 

He's young, he's virile, you're holding out on sex, he's surrounded by young sexy partying people....I don't see a great outcome here.

 

If you really are stuck on staying w/ him then do it, just face the facts (above in bold from seekingpeaceinlove post) when you do, so you won't have any surprises. People have made relationships work after much worse was done so if that's what you want then go for it.

 

It's really not what I would recommend doing but it's up to you.

 

Just accept it for what it is tho and don't lie to yourself about what happened in order to continue in the relationship.