sadpanda19 Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 Hi everybody!! This is my first time posting on these kind of forums and i really need some piece of advice or something. So, last week I met this girl, she just moved in my city and works at the same place with my mom. I invited her out and she accepted. It was a mess, we didnt had much talk and a storm started. Now, the problem is after i checked her fb i saw very weird descriptions at her photos, things like: 'Im still fighting for you" and things like that. I asked her if shes in a relationship and she said no. So i asked her to another date and she keeps refusing me, finding excuses like she has to work and has to do laundrys. I just cant understand. everytime i talk to her she seems so excited but when i ask her out she says no. Why? 1
BigShel Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 If she won't go out with you, she's simply not interested dude. That's the bottom line. She's just being nice around the work space. I guess that first date turned her off? Let her be, don't pursue her anymore. 1
PogoStick Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 She says no because she doesn't like you enough to go out again. Move on and leave her alone. You're just annoying her at this point. 2
elaine567 Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 Sounds like she is trying to move on from someone else and you were not the answer to her prayers. She is just being friendly but doesn't want to go out with you. Leave her alone, don't ask again. 1
Satu Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 She's not feeling it. Bestow your affections elsewhere.
smackie9 Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 She may not be in a relationship but emotionally she still is. She is hung up on her ex no doubt, and all she is probably looking for is a guy that will give her attention/be friends. DO NOT waste anymore of your time with this one. 1
J21 Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 Sorry mate, but those vague "I'm still fighting for you" indicates she's hung up on someone else and it probably does not relate to you. Best to move on, cheers. 1
Gaeta Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 You are misinterpreting her kindness and joviality for romantic interest. She just sees you as a friend.
Author sadpanda19 Posted June 20, 2016 Author Posted June 20, 2016 Thank you all for your responses. As you said maybe she isnt interesed in me. Last day when we talked i asked her jovially whats up with those quotes and if she suffers for someone. She replied something like i dont suffer for anyone, i dont have for who or why. She said she just like those quotes, lol.
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