My Partner needs space again

[katiegrl]

I think he cares too, but let's face it, the guy's got some major issues and fears.... fear of commitment, intimacy, closeness and godonlyknows what else...

 

That is why he keeps needing breaks, he feels suffocated by RLs, and if you choose to stay with him, all his uncertainty, back and forth, and push/pull will drive you literally crazy.

 

If you unable to end this toxicity for yourself, think of your daughter.

 

She needs stability in her life, not the crap this guy is dishing out.

[preraph]

he's not ready for commitment at all. Of course he likes you -- as long as he can just keep doing whatever he wants and still have you. See how long he lasts when you don't just give in on it.

[Dis]

I agree with the general consensus....you need to leave him

 

One things that hasnt been mentioned that may be a valuable tool for you is...healthy anger

 

Not uncontrollable rage

 

But healthy realistic anger

 

Think what he's doing....sleeping with other women while you're home waiting by the door

 

Think about the damage he might be doing to your daughter...if you continue to stay with him she'll believe its normal/acceptable for a man to waltz in and out of a woman's life. She could very well end up in situtation much like yours

 

Think about everything you do for him....welcoming him back with open arms after he's slept with god knows who...cooking for him...cleaning for him...mean while he's giving nothing to you in return

 

Doesnt all this make you mad???? I hope so because it should!!!

 

When I broke up with my ex I broke up with him because he broke my trust....not because we didnt love each other. So whenever I needed strength to continue to never contact him again...I remembered all the lies he fed me and all the women he was probably sleeping with while we were together. That anger made me place a higher value on myself and ensured I never contacted him again despite all his desperate texts and yes tears

 

Get angry hun...you deserve to be