40daysforthen253 Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 (edited) We got drinks at bar. We sat on bar stools. Talked for 45 min. Felt comfortable. Then we got bored and left. In order to create interest, I feel I must (A) escalate physically or convey attraction, or (B) bounce somewhere. My apt is next door. There's a great rooftop. There's a waterside walkway nearby. How do I actually do this stuff? Thnx! Edited June 20, 2016 by 40daysforthen253
BrainMangler Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 The last bar date I went on went something like this: She met up at my place then we ubered it to a bar. We had maybe one drink. We sat upstairs in a lounge type area away from the crowds (so we could talk and not be bothered) and I had my arm around her about half the time. Afterwards I suggested we walk home back to my place and make a couple more drinks. I think we started to watch a movie or something but eventually just banged. Another time I suggested we go back to my place and hit up the apartment pool with some drinks. Just plan things out a bit before hand and keep it simple.
Author 40daysforthen253 Posted June 20, 2016 Author Posted June 20, 2016 Afterwards I suggested we walk home back to my place and make a couple more drinks. Can you elaborate on this step. What signs were you getting? How did you suggest? Thanks
BrainMangler Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 Honestly it went something like this: There was a bachelorette party behind us and the girl I was with was getting kinda annoyed because they were being drunk and annoying. I was also buying her drinks that night (I told her I would if she drove to me instead of me ubering it somewhere close to her place). I said something like those girls over there are being really annoying and the drinks back at my place are free.. lets go back to my place, drink some whiskey/rum and hit the pool/watch a movie. She said great lets do it, we leave the bar and at first I tried to flag down a golf cart to take us home because I wasn't sure if it would bother her walking a mile back to my apartment. When I couldn't find one I said lets just start walking back to my place and maybe we'll see one along the way or something. We talk, joke, and she starts showing me her tattoos and before I knew it we were at my place without having to hail a cab/uber/golf cart. She didn't mind the walk at all as it was still nice out. Definitely don't try and walk back with the girl if the climate sucks. Where I'm at now its like 102 and its 11.
joseb Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 (edited) She said great lets do it, we leave the bar and at first I tried to flag down a golf cart to take us home Golf cart?? is your home the 19th hole or something? Brian makes a good point though. Try to control the environment and set it up to make your life easier. This is assuming you are trying to hook up with the girls, which is what I'm guessing? Edited June 20, 2016 by joseb
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