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Tinder dilemma - matched with old date's best friend


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So about a year and a half ago I went on a couple of dates with this guy but I didn't feel any spark. It was just super awkward. We texted for a while before we went out, but we only went to lunch twice, that's all, and he jumped the gun and thought we were a serious thing. I politely had to tell him no, and he told me how hurt he was. I mean he acted like I asked him for a divorce or something, and we barely spent any time together.

 

I matched with one of his best friend's on Tinder and had no idea until I investigated on Facebook (we have mutual friends). He seems like a level-headed awesome guy. But I'm assuming it would probably be weird, and probably against some bro-code.

 

I just don't know what to do, do you guys think it's worth pursuing?

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A couple dates a few years ago - no bigge at all.

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Okay, I just wanted to make sure I wasn't seriously crazy. I also asked my friend and she told me it wasn't a great idea. But I can't imagine being sour over two dates from years ago...but some people are nuts I guess. If I went out with him and felt a connection I don't think it's something I'd pass up.

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Yeah if it was a few years ago that should not be a problem. But if you two did start something together don't be to surprised if it started a little trouble. If I was the other guy it would be racing through my mind why you chose him over me.

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