Author Apis Posted June 20, 2016 Author Posted June 20, 2016 So guys, I have been successfully keeping no contact. I feel better, I get sad still, but my thoughts are not messed up anymore, I can study now, started exercising also. Thank you guys for all your help
Chi townD Posted June 20, 2016 Posted June 20, 2016 Okay, Apis. Here comes a dose of reality. She was cheating on you. She may have not been physical, but she was cheating on you none the less. She was cheating on you emotionally. She got so emotionally involved with this other douche rocket that she ultimately put more of a value on this D-bag more than you! So, she kicked you to the curb. Then, you state that you and her had a "closure" meet up. Which is stupid because then you come back on here and state that you took her for granted. So, basically you have a meet up for "closure" and she sat there and told you what YOU did wrong, and what YOU didn't do that ultimately made her leave you. These "closure" meet ups are BS. All they are is for your Ex's to tell you what YOU did to cause the demise of the relationship and to ease their guilt for dumping you. Here's the rub, YOU DID NOTHING WRONG!!! This wasn't your fault! This was her choice! And her choice was to cheat on you and get herself involved with another guy while she was still promised to be exclusive to you! So, here's what you need to do. You need to go complete NC on her. You need to go COMPLETELY ghost on her. You need to change your number and you need to block her on facebook and all other forms of social media! If she calls you let it go to voicemail (if you haven't changed your number which I would advise you do!) if she emails you, ignore it. If she texts you, don't answer. You need this to heal and move on. Trust me, this is only going to help you disconnect from her. Because you have until October to cut her loose before she shows up at your Campus. You want to get to the point that if you see her, your reaction should be, "Meh..." It's time to heal and move on! There are girls out there that know how to stay loyal!
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