katiegrl Posted June 17, 2016 Posted June 17, 2016 To be fair, she said, knowing him, that's what she think he'd say Which makes it worse because she knows him, and knows how dismissive (and arrogant) he would be if she ever expressed a concern or insecurity. Which suggests it is his nature.....to be dismissive. Not just about that but about other things too. She knows him after all.... OP, what keeps you there? Besides that you are sexually bonded and emotionally attached to him. What are some good and loving things about him? Things that would indicate you are special to him....
elaine567 Posted June 17, 2016 Posted June 17, 2016 You have only really been living together for two weeks and one of those he is only "visiting", so it is far too soon to make any judgements as to how things will pan out. He likes to cook his own food - big deal. It is hardly a deal breaker. YOU may have had visions of big pots of delicious stew and soup on the range to feed YOUR man but he is a picky eater so he is better cooking for himself. He may allow you eventually to cook what he likes if you really, really want to, but don't sweat the small stuff. Nice things are only "nice" if the person you do them for thinks they are "nice", otherwise it is not being "nice". 2
kendahke Posted June 17, 2016 Posted June 17, 2016 Nice things are only "nice" if the person you do them for thinks they are "nice", otherwise it is not being "nice". exactly... in fact, it can masquerade as manipulation. 1
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