LookAtThisPOst Posted June 16, 2016 Posted June 16, 2016 Ladies and gentlemen, ever come across a profile where the person talks like a sailor? Dropping the F-bomb and S-bomb peppered about their profile. Usually it's in context with, "I'm looking for someone that have their s*** together!" or "Looking for my next love, not my next f***!" (Boy I can sure feel the love, lol) And they don't even censor themselves. lol Do these women actually have success with men? Are men not turned off by that?
RecentChange Posted June 16, 2016 Posted June 16, 2016 Eh, perhaps they are just being themselves and not putting up a fake front? Seems like an automatic filter right? I tend to curse a lot when in a casual setting. While I might not curse in a dating profile, if I read one with cursing it wouldn't be an automatic turn off. If I was doing on line dating - hahaha I think now I would be inspired to slip a curse word in there to ward off the types that would be offended by it! 2
ChocolateRain Posted June 16, 2016 Posted June 16, 2016 Sounds like someone really frustrated lol .... i did come across Profiles like that and at least read them ... yeap , frustrated maybe because too many Players out there ( ? )
Author LookAtThisPOst Posted June 16, 2016 Author Posted June 16, 2016 Sounds like someone really frustrated lol .... i did come across Profiles like that and at least read them ... yeap , frustrated maybe because too many Players out there ( ? ) Probably birds of a feather, every photo of herself is a bedroom mirror selfie of tight little black dress, bikini or "pre/post work out" 1
ChocolateRain Posted June 16, 2016 Posted June 16, 2016 (edited) Probably birds of a feather, every photo of herself is a bedroom mirror selfie of tight little black dress, bikini or "pre/post work out" Well let me change my Post then hhhhhhh yeap , she is really frustrated Same with men posing in underwear but headlines reads : '' looking for serious Relationship '' ....aaahhh Classic Edited June 16, 2016 by ChocolateRain ETA
MGX Posted June 16, 2016 Posted June 16, 2016 I think they sound like OLD veterans. They might be irritated by all the negativity they experienced and some of it is coming through in the profiles. 1
MissBee Posted June 21, 2016 Posted June 21, 2016 Ladies and gentlemen, ever come across a profile where the person talks like a sailor? Dropping the F-bomb and S-bomb peppered about their profile. Usually it's in context with, "I'm looking for someone that have their s*** together!" or "Looking for my next love, not my next f***!" (Boy I can sure feel the love, lol) And they don't even censor themselves. lol Do these women actually have success with men? Are men not turned off by that? You started off with ladies and gentlemen yet only asked if men aren't turned off by this. So what about if women are turned off by this? To me, it singles out women in this as a quality that is particularly unattractive in women but fine for men and sounds like the whole idea of how women should be and act ("real women don't swear" kind of idea) that's quite dated. Now, I think it's perfectly fine to prefer someone who doesn't curse but I wouldn't read too much into cursing. I wouldn't swear on my profile, but it also depends. In real life though, yes, the F bomb and other swear words pass my lips, and if a man finds it offensive, he and I should probably not date. I did have a guy once who said he thought cursing was "unladylike." He could curse all he wanted but when I did, suddenly that was a problem. I realized that it probably meant he had other ideas about what women should be and do and how they should act that were antiquated, and sure enough, as I got to know him more he made his ideas known. Needless to say, that ended. As most of these types of questions go: what is offensive to one man isn't to another. There is no such thing really as "don't men like this" or don't "men" hate this. No...men come in all kinds and varieties with different views and beliefs, likes and dislikes and things like this are a personal preference that will bother some and not others, heck some men might even like a woman with a sailor's mouth.
JustGettingBy Posted June 22, 2016 Posted June 22, 2016 It would be a yellow flag for me. Not inherently bad, but there is such a thing a 'too much' swearing.
ChickiePops Posted June 22, 2016 Posted June 22, 2016 75 years ago men definitely would have been turned off by that. Nowadays..who cares? I don't curse much but it happens from time to time. My boyfriend doesn't care. At all. Not even a little bit.
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