tango4275 Posted June 16, 2016 Posted June 16, 2016 Just wanted to throw out a situation and get some ideas as to what might be happening. I asked out a girl I met like 5 years ago in March. I never see her personally so I shot her a message over Facebook. She did not respond, but what I find more peculiar is that since that day, she never posts on her page anymore. Like ever. She used to post like twice a day on average, so she was very active. I know she did not restrict me or anything as I see certain posts she is tagged in. Kind of a silly thing but I'm damn curious about this. Just a coincidence I guess? I'll give more details if necessary. 1
Lobe Posted June 16, 2016 Posted June 16, 2016 You have two options to consider. 1) she has limited your view of her profile because she thinks you're creepy or 2) you have horrible timing because she just went on holidays and isn't on social media. Either way, you best bet is to send her a DM and say yo, wanna get coffee? You have to wait for activity. If she responds, perfect. If she posts and ghosts you, you have your answer... Nothing ventured, nothing gained. 1
Author tango4275 Posted June 16, 2016 Author Posted June 16, 2016 Well she also went 7 weeks between her instagram posts too after this. Last time I messaged her she made a post afterwards "I can't live with or without you". She has not posted since. I dunno. Just find it sort of odd. Also, she did not add me to her restricted list as there are posts she is tagged in that I see. Guess I am just reading into this, but it's a pretty drastic change in behavior. 1
joseb Posted June 16, 2016 Posted June 16, 2016 She probably has restricted you. The posts you see are the ones posted publically, or ones that all her friends can see. 1
Author tango4275 Posted June 16, 2016 Author Posted June 16, 2016 Well she did not add me to her restricted list because I would not see her posts being tagged by friends. When you are added to the restricted list you ONLY see public posts. Anyway, seems like she should have just unfriended me if she was gonna be like that. 1
CarrieT Posted June 16, 2016 Posted June 16, 2016 It is social media, for crying-out-loud... Don't try to pin a person down based on their online activity. You have NO IDEA what is happening to this girl In Real Life or inside her body, mind, and soul. You said you asked her FIVE MONTHS ago but never see her In Real Life? Than don't project who she is or what she is thinking by her inactions on social media pages. Sheesh. 1
Larryville Posted June 16, 2016 Posted June 16, 2016 I asked out a girl I met like 5 years ago in March. she has limited your view of her profile because she thinks you're creepy She probably has restricted you. Anyway, seems like she should have just unfriended me if she was gonna be like that. she has limited your view of her profile because she thinks you're creepy FIVE MONTHS ago No I asked out a girl I met like 5 years ago she has limited your view of her profile because she thinks you're creepy [i was routinely facebook stalking (insert name of person you have never actually spoken to but have frequently visited his/her facebook profile)'s photos and saw pictures from it.] 1
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