jovialmojo Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 How do you guys start greiving a relationship. What do you do to cope in the initial phase of breakup because it really hurts.
pippen_2k Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 Man I dont think anything you do makes it easier in the initial phases of a break up.. you just gotta take it on the chin. Things that made me feel a lil better was exercise ( I was running 5 days a week for like an hour at a time ), and also talking about your situation with someone you can trust..weather it be a close friend or councellor. But at the end of the day ur still gonna have time for yourself and are gonna have the nights.. and this is when you will get haunted by her. Try not to contact her..even tho you probably will ( we all do ), and just try and keep busy.. no matter how boring and difficult it may seem at the time, just keep busy! Even if that means comming in here for a look. Just try to limit the time where your by urself. Oh also if you drink it will numb the pain for a while, but when you sober up it hits you alot harder. Take Care
Jeannie Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 It does hurt alot - especially if you're the one who's trying to end the relationship and not sure if you're doing the right thing (and still feel love for the other person). I'm going thru the same thing - it hurts, I want to run back......but if I go back I'm going back for more dissapointment and heartbreak - continuing the cycle. He doesn't respect me - why, I don't know. He claims he loves me yet he's always got one eye on every other girl that walks by and I can't trust him - I think he'd cheat if he got the chance. The trust and respect isn't there - I can't continue to allow him to treat me this way. So I'm trying like hell to end it - it's NOT easy at all. I'm in alot of pain.
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