goldenrule Posted June 15, 2016 Posted June 15, 2016 Hi all, I have been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year now. It has been really hard to see eachother often due to our work schedules and luckily we have been able to grow close. We talked about moving in together in the past but we left it there until recently it came up again. He wants me to move im with him by September but the problem is i don't like the city he lives in. It's a lot different then where I live. His city is more farm land and secluded. I have told him I don't want to live there for more then a year and he said ok after a year we can move to the city I want to go to so I can go back to school and start my career. Only issue I am having is I don't want to waste a whole year stuck in a lease working a ****ty job just to make ends meet and pay rent, car, hydro, etc. I feel like I will just be wasting time. While he is going to go back to school and work he will be happy because he likes his city. I asked him to move here or for us to find another city where we both with start new but he doesn't want to he said he doesnt feel secure or ready to leave his home right now. We agreed that if I don't want to move there we will have to break up because we both are unhappy with the long distance. I really don't know what to do, should I just suck it up for the year amd hope that I am somewhat happy there? I don't want to lose him thats the hardest part. 1
Satu Posted June 15, 2016 Posted June 15, 2016 If you don't want to, you shouldn't. No good could come of it.
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