Jolie84 Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 Hi im 21 yrs old and been in a 8 and a half month relationship with this guy. I feel like im not good enough for him. He is a uni student in his 3rd yr and I am unemployed and have no drivers license or anything. We argue regulary over little things like helping each other and talking about problems to each other but i feel like im not good enough and that i love that bit tooo much, im always pranking or calling or smsing him everyday and trying to get him to stay over some nights but he has uni and his parents want him to focus on that. And i get jeleaous that he has things to do and i dont, i get depressed and stressed over the little things and family problems and i feel bad i drag him into it.
moimeme Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 So rather than complain that you feel you aren't good enough, get moving on taking courses or finding a job. If you haven't finished high school, do so. Your life will be pretty awful if you can't earn your own keep so start working on it.
whichwayisup Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 You can't rely on him for "all" your happiness, that has to come within yourself. DO something, anything - a job, take a course, do a hobby that you love. Why not try to learn how to drive? Get your license. Take up photography or painting, that way you have your own interests and your world just isn't about this guy. University is hard work, and if his parents paid for him to go ofcourse they want him to concentrate on his studies, not just being with you. Put more focus on changing to better yourself and then maybe he'll seem more attentive to your needs. Crying wolf isn't so good because that one time you really DO need him, chances are he won't want to be there for you.
carlota Posted June 27, 2005 Posted June 27, 2005 It seems to me that if you really like this guy you should give him space. Try to occupy your time doing sht. else, get into a gym or do sth. with your free time. Dont try to absorb him so much cause he is going to get tired of it and let you go. And im pretty sure you dont want that.
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