Kofybean Posted June 16, 2016 Posted June 16, 2016 My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year but have known each other for about 6 years. A while ago she wanted to go out and I was with my daughter and could not go. So she went out with one of her guy friends from out of town and stayed at his house. She did call me that night but claimed the next day she was black out drunk that night and could not remember much. A month after that another guy friend was in town and she wanted to see him, I also had my daughter that night so I could not go. She called me to pick her up from the bar and when i got there they were very close together, almost sitting on his lap. When she saw she started to come by me and he went to grab her. When I tried talking to her about it the next day she again claimed she did not remember. I told her I was uncomfortable with it and she said she would not do it again. Now the other night the same situation where she wanted to go out and i had my daughter. I told her i would prefer her not to, but she went by her guy friend out of town, got drunk and stayed at his house because she could not drive. She says its fine and that there is nothing there but she is very attractive and the guy is single so that worries me. I have asked why we all cant hang out and conveniently something always comes up with him. Wondering what other people thought about this situation? That you are a glutton for punishment, willfully soft, and she knows she owns you. You enable her. My condolences.
lilnomar33 Posted June 18, 2016 Posted June 18, 2016 Be careful op it seem i all these nights out are plan that she knows you are with your kid. If i where you take a big step back and try to take off the rose cover glasses to find out the real things going on with these black out all nighters. I have no repeat for people like your GF.
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