djhayyy Posted June 14, 2016 Posted June 14, 2016 Good day! I am writing in search for some advice. You see my gf and I broke up days ago. It wasn't a clear break up. It started with a fight about me not being able to stand up for her. She packed her things moved out of our apartment. I did a semi-NC since I was devastated by the way she treated our relationship. After few hours, seems like she came to her senses telling that she's sorry that she moved out. I told her it's ok. Then still proceed to what sticked to my mind that it was clear for me that it was a break up. Then she started chatting me again. I was replying. She told me that she still in love with me to the point that it's already unexplainable why. I admit though that I am a bit immature when it comes to relationship. We fight because of me being insensitive, not exerting effort and I know I am guilty of that. I can say for my self that I am still in love with this girl. I know that I need to be strong. But I need some other's advice. Is it possible that she wants to reconcile ASAP or just having some syndrome or left hanging because she was hurt too.
Sunshine8 Posted June 14, 2016 Posted June 14, 2016 "It started with a fight about me not being able to stand up for her." "I did a semi-NC" "We fight because of me being insensitive, not exerting effort and I know I am guilty of that." Based on this (little information) I think she is hurt and does not feel understood by you.
PegNosePete Posted June 15, 2016 Posted June 15, 2016 Is it possible that she wants to reconcile ASAP or just having some syndrome or left hanging because she was hurt too. There is no such thing as a "syndrome". What do you mean, PTSD or AIDS or EDS or something? She clearly told you the reasons she was moving out. That is not a syndrome, it is a decision. If I were you I'd call her up and ask what is going on with the relationship, whether she wants to continue it or not. No mucking around, in or out. 1
sooshi Posted June 15, 2016 Posted June 15, 2016 Ask her if she wants to continue or not. That's how you can find out what she wants.
Author djhayyy Posted June 15, 2016 Author Posted June 15, 2016 Guess you guys are right. I'm going to her and ask her one more time just to clarify. Thanks everyone.
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