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I met this girl on a dating app back in March, she's in Thailand I'm in US. We talked daily things clicked, I visited her last month for 2 weeks, went great. Since I got back she posted pics on facebook instagram and twitter. Twitter being her most private account with only 20 close friends. I dont care about social media much at all, maybe log on 3x a week. Anyways when I saw all the posts about me "boyfriend bought this for me" "out with boyfriend @ dinner crusie" "great boyfriend took me and my mom out for lunch" etc. on twitter, she straight up lied to me that her friend made those posts and that she doesnt really use twitter, which is true but she instantly made her twitter private after I mentioned that I saw her twitter pics.

 

Now her twitter has 3-4 pics of her ex holding hands about 2 years ago which did not bother me. I'm very confused why she made her twitter private as soon as she found out I knew her twitter (because she only added me on fb and ig) THEN she even searched for my account and blocked it, and lied straight up that she blocks everyone noone can add her. I made a random account and could add her if I wanted.

 

On facebook and instagram she'd tagged me on 2-4 pics out of about 10, none of those pics have my picture, just the places and food we had. Does this sound like she's trying to hide her friends or random followers on IG that she's taken? Her friends on FB know we're dating, I dont care what her friends or other guys that follow her think, I know that she talks to other guys to make friends with guys from other countries. I cant be sure if shes flirting with them or not. This is why I made this post and hoping to get some sincere suggestions/opinions.

 

We made plans for this october, I'm going to take her and her mom on a vacation in thailand for a week or 2. We text everyday for an hour or 2, compared to 3-5 hrs on phone or video call. Is she losing interest? Bored with me? Or I'm just overthinking? Should I be patient until the trip and see what happens?

 

PS - she's no gold digger or expecting a marriage/greencard anything like that. I'm 28 shes 21, thanks!

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She's immature. Too many crazy things. Why bother since the relationship is so far away. If marriage is not what this is about, why do this? She is acting like a kid.

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