SweetJulia Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 I don't think I want to live anymore. I don't see purpose. go from one pain to another.
moimeme Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 Live because no matter how bad life looks today, that doesn't mean it will continue to be that bad and you really don't want to miss the good stuff that will come. You just have to hang in there and your luck will change. Please go look up http://www.metanoia.org Here are other resources where you'll find help. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org (United States) Managed by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) 1-800-273-TALK (8255) National Hopeline Network, http://www.hopeline.com (United States) Managed by the Kristin Brooks Hope Center 1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433)
greenhorn Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 Originally posted by SweetJulia I don't think I want to live anymore. I don't see purpose. go from one pain to another. Live because it is an act of selfishness and cowardice to take this short cut of getting over the pain. Realise that life is not a bed of roses and so pains are a part of it not something so alien to life that you need to end it. Pains are there so that you can later feel the true worth of happiness and rejoice at them. We all have goings getting tough in life but you need to fight it, slug it out, that's what the fighting spirit is all about. Get yourself the satisfaction that you are not a coward or trying to run away from the problems, face the world, no matter you will succeed or not but you will feel happy for yourself. Remember when things hit the nadir then there is only one way to go, to go up and this pain will end and things will turn better. Talk to people at this time, and keep us updated. Good luck
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 SweetJulia, You sound like you're really in despair. I know where you are...I've been there too. Suicide is a never a solution. Please take the advice here and call one of the hotlines mentioned. Or if you are more comfortable with email, please go to http://www.samaritans.org.uk/ and click on the email link. You don't have to be in the UK to use their free service. Talk to someone about what you are feeling. Get it all out. Don't carry your burdens alone. You don't have to. Please let us know how you are doing. Blessings, Jen
rastafari Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 things can only get better, you are at your lowest point. that mayt sound bad, but i have ben there for weeks at a time. i went through the whole attempted suacide and all that jazz. go out and meet other people, seriously get out of your home. thats the best thing for you, i speek from expierence. and talk to a therapist a lot, and perhaps get checked out by your doctor. i ended up having lyme deasease, thats what put me in your position. sounds weird, but perhaps you have depression problems, or something is leading you toward that. basically seek some help. keep your head up and dont harp on things, its sunny outside a lot, go play
lindya Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 Recognise that if you're feeling this way, it means you're not well, and a series of hard knocks can leave a person feeling that way. It doesn't mean you're weak or cowardly, it just means you've had so much crap to deal with of late that your coping mechanisms are shot to pieces. Start being kind to yourself. Focus on preparing yourself healthy meals, take time out to go for walks, take lots of pampering time and think about taking up a new interest. Zone out other people's negativity and remember that other people are NOT always right. Harsh words are NOT always the truth. As you get through this horrible time, you'll learn more and more about your own truth - and once you start getting out of that dark place, you might find that a lot of other people think you're a pretty special person. If the prospect of socialising with new people is too much right now, then that new interest could be something like painting or photography. Visit the site Moimeme mentioned, and think about buying one of the books advertised on it. You might be surprised by just how much a good self-help book can get you through a time like this. Keep posting.
niceguy69 Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 My advice is workout hardcore. By beating up yourself at the gym you start to forgive yourself for all the mistakes you made in the relationship. And you'll get hot at the same time. Since my gf dumped me 2 months ago, I have formed Bradd Pitt abs and can bench 200 lbs. Now I have to weed my way through the sluts again to find a "good" girl.
lindya Posted June 26, 2005 Posted June 26, 2005 Originally posted by niceguy69 My advice is workout hardcore. By beating up yourself at the gym you start to forgive yourself for all the mistakes you made in the relationship. And you'll get hot at the same time. Since my gf dumped me 2 months ago, I have formed Bradd Pitt abs and can bench 200 lbs. Now I have to weed my way through the sluts again to find a "good" girl. I think she should perhaps just start with some gentle yoga.
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