Jc38 Posted June 13, 2016 Posted June 13, 2016 Hi everyone, I can really use some outside advice because For the past month I have been pretty confused about a gil I like. A little background, I am in grad school and I have been in school since the start of this year. The girl I am interested has been there for about 2 years and has one year left. She's only about 2 years older than me but that hasn't seem to be an issue for either of us. Our school offers a clinic to the general public and students who can come in for anything they need treated. For the last year of school, students work in the clinic as interns and see/treat patients. This girl is an intern who just started, and I met her briefly at the beginning of the year but never really got to know her, more of made acquaintances. We started this summer semester and she came up to me at one of our clubs and started talking to me, as if we knew each other well. We talked for awhile and she told me I should come see her at clinic. So I started seeing her for some neuromuscular issues and have been going 3 times a week for a little over a month. The confusing thing for me is that she ended things with her bf about 3 months ago and has been sending me mixed signals. She messaged me on FB after the first visit and gave me her number in case we would need to "reschedule appointments" which never happens because the front desk takes care of that. My good friend talked to her at a bar recently where she said she didn't want to date anyone from school out of respect for her ex who goes there and she doesn't want to be in a relationship just yet. She's kind of flirtatious and laughs at a lot when we talked but at the same time she has to stay professional due to her being on the job. Lately our visits have been more informal and more talking than treatment. I've been giving her space because I don't want it to seem like I'm trying start a relationship with her right away. The only times I see her are those 3 times a week and sometimes at the gym. We text every once in a while but nothing important just kind of bs'ing. The trouble having is I can't tell if she's into me or not. I invited her to a game with some friends and she blushed/smiled but said she'd let me know later. She couldn't go due to some family issues and had to go home. I've been really confused with the whole situation and if anyone has any input on how to go about this situation or any thoughts on it, it would be greatly appreciated.
bummer Posted June 13, 2016 Posted June 13, 2016 Sounds innocent and flattering enough. Perhaps she is still grieving or reconciled with the ex? Perhaps she's honouring her claim to date outside the school pool? Many possibilities. I would innocently ask her again to something and maybe have a few options in the next week. if she blows it all off, move on or stay in the holding pattern for a few more weeks or months while she sorts her self out.
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