random5thave Posted June 11, 2016 Posted June 11, 2016 1. I asked a girl out. She said she will have to check her schedule and let me know. It's been over a month and she hasn't said anything although we see each other. Is she interested? Please answer this before you read my next question. What was your answer? 2.During the summer I dress very well and groom myself and get lots and lots of compliments. I have been dressing well this summer too and I am getting the compliments again. A girl once complimented my shoes. Recently she complimented my dressing too. And even mentioned I am very well dressed and my clothes looks expensive and where do I get them. They are not expensive. I just keep them clean and know how to match them. Is she interested? Please answer this question before you read my last question. 3. This girl has been asking me some personal questions lately and trying to engage me in a conversation. She usually does the initiating and does this when we are alone. Actually I don't talk to her much when we are in a group. I can't tell if she is being friendly or just nervous around me. Is she interested? What was your answer? 4. If girl 1, 2 and 3 are the same person would you say she is interested? Why hasn't she got back to me if she's interested. It's only a date that I am asking for, not a marriage ceremony. I was prepared to give her my best shot. Why cant she say no if she isn't interested? At the moment, I don't intend asking her out again but want to understand what you think is going on here. Please share your thoughts. I am looking to become better at handling these things. Thanks!
smackie9 Posted June 11, 2016 Posted June 11, 2016 You don't wait a flippin month for a girl to "get back to you". You wait a few days and ask her out again. If she give you the same song and dance, you move on. Pretty simple. Stay away from girls that search for answers about your financial worth....gold digger. You ditch that B&^%$
smackie9 Posted June 11, 2016 Posted June 11, 2016 Not very many people come out and reject someone by saying NO. They usually give you a bunch of excuses, maybes and other pacifying techniques in hopes you will get the hint and go away. Get used it, it's just the way life is.
Author random5thave Posted June 11, 2016 Author Posted June 11, 2016 Thank you! Next time that happens I will wait and ask again in 3 days. Haven't said that, you think I am dealing with someone who isn't interested and couldn't say No?
longjohn Posted June 12, 2016 Posted June 12, 2016 1. I asked a girl out. She said she will have to check her schedule and let me know. It's been over a month and she hasn't said anything although we see each other. Is she interested? Please answer this before you read my next question. What was your answer? 2.During the summer I dress very well and groom myself and get lots and lots of compliments. I have been dressing well this summer too and I am getting the compliments again. A girl once complimented my shoes. Recently she complimented my dressing too. And even mentioned I am very well dressed and my clothes looks expensive and where do I get them. They are not expensive. I just keep them clean and know how to match them. Is she interested? Please answer this question before you read my last question. 3. This girl has been asking me some personal questions lately and trying to engage me in a conversation. She usually does the initiating and does this when we are alone. Actually I don't talk to her much when we are in a group. I can't tell if she is being friendly or just nervous around me. Is she interested? What was your answer? 4. If girl 1, 2 and 3 are the same person would you say she is interested? Why hasn't she got back to me if she's interested. It's only a date that I am asking for, not a marriage ceremony. I was prepared to give her my best shot. Why cant she say no if she isn't interested? At the moment, I don't intend asking her out again but want to understand what you think is going on here. Please share your thoughts. I am looking to become better at handling these things. Thanks! 1. Short answer is, NO!.. move along she isn't interested. Seriously don't waste your time. There's lots of nice ladies out there that will be interested. Rules are made to be broken.. see below: 2. Keep doing that ladies like a guy that they can't smell from a quarter a mile away. Dressed well and groomed also shows you care about yourself and maybe.. you'll care about them. 3. She might be making small talk. She could be interested but if she is she's got someone else in mind right now otherwise Question 1 wouldn't be a no. 4. Girl 1, 2, 3 are the same person! Saying she's interested (in her mind) is more polite than saying go duck yourself I suppose. The fact she has indirectly said no to Question 1 makes everything else irrelevant. I think she's either not interested and was being polite. Is curious but isn't that interested or has another prospect and putting you into a holding pattern. If I were you I'd move along. Believe it or not sometimes just moving along and acting like your not interested perks female interest and has them come to you. However more times than not they think thank god, he got the point haha. Don't over analyze women you'll likely go absolutely insane and feel a sudden urge to buy shoes.
Jabron1 Posted June 12, 2016 Posted June 12, 2016 1. No 2. Ask her out / find out 3. Ask her out / find out 4. No Send her another text. If there's no response, stop considering her.
Buddhist Posted June 12, 2016 Posted June 12, 2016 1. I asked a girl out. She said she will have to check her schedule and let me know. It's been over a month and she hasn't said anything although we see each other. Is she interested? Please answer this before you read my next question. What was your answer? No. She couldn't be less interested. 2.During the summer I dress very well and groom myself and get lots and lots of compliments. I have been dressing well this summer too and I am getting the compliments again. A girl once complimented my shoes. Recently she complimented my dressing too. And even mentioned I am very well dressed and my clothes looks expensive and where do I get them. They are not expensive. I just keep them clean and know how to match them. Is she interested? Please answer this question before you read my last question. Not unless you mean interested in a shopping trip. 3. This girl has been asking me some personal questions lately and trying to engage me in a conversation. She usually does the initiating and does this when we are alone. Actually I don't talk to her much when we are in a group. I can't tell if she is being friendly or just nervous around me. Is she interested? What was your answer? She is interested in having a conversation with you. That's it. 4. If girl 1, 2 and 3 are the same person would you say she is interested? Why hasn't she got back to me if she's interested. It's only a date that I am asking for, not a marriage ceremony. I was prepared to give her my best shot. Why cant she say no if she isn't interested? Because she is interested in being your friend, not your lover. At the moment, I don't intend asking her out again but want to understand what you think is going on here. Please share your thoughts. I am looking to become better at handling these things. Thanks! She is interested in being your friend. Nothing else. 1
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