ex playing games.

[AriAri]

I don't even know where to start..... I blocked an ex in October 2014, no contact. today I received a call from one of his friends. I have now blocked him. I am 33 and this is childish and stupid that I block an ex to receive a call from his friends number. A friend of his I haven't seen nor spoken to in 10 years.

 

 

I don't think I started this right. We didn't break up in 2014, we broke up in 2009. In 2014 he called to "apologize" for how badly he treated me in our 10 year relationship. That apology was a fake reason to come back into my life. I fell for it, let him come back as a friend. The name calling, harassing, pointless calling returned. All the bad and hurt came back. So I repeatedly asked him to stop and he wouldn't. he wouldn't stop calling. So finally I blocked him. It took everything i had to block him. A person I once loved and now cant remember the good. So I blocked him and now he is calling me from others number. I don't know why nor want to know. I just want to be left alone. I haven't really dated, i cant I am just drained. He has a child with someone else,we were dating when she was born and I didn't know for 2 years. I just feel stupid. Everyone in my circle knows about him, they are all tired of hearing about it and I am tired of talking about it but needed to so I decided to post here. Finally thought he had left me alone, but here I am. I am tired of talking about him and tired of feeling scared he will show up to my home since I keep blocking him. My high school sweetheart turned into a long nightmare story that I am dealing with at 33.

 

Anyone out there with a similar experience. Tried looking to see about nc situations but most stories are only months after.

[Emilia]

I am very sorry that he disturbed your life so much. It is perfectly possible that the friend dialled your number by mistake, I've done that once or twice, hitting a number by mistake.

 

Change your number perhaps? He won't be able to get in touch that way.