need to vent.

[Escobar95]

Hi, i hope to get some good tips/answers.

Ages - Me (20) Her (20).

 

I started dating a girl January 2015 i have known her 6 years before we even started dating, things were perfect between us, i was a finance broker at the age of 19 i was building up my database and reputation in the game whilst she was an accountant for a bank so we were very similar in industry wise.

 

I never conflicted any fights or any type of argument, when i was angry about something i would cool off and talk to her with a clear mind, she would do the same it was just a ground rule no cheating from me at all.

 

She found a new job before our breakup and started working at a more corporate bank. About a month before our break up she started talking to a guy from work, outside of work a lot more then she would message me but i stupidly trusted her. I knew a CEO at the branch she worked in. The CEO called me up on his lunch break and said your partner is on a date with Mr Steal your girl. I was utterly shocked and disgusted. i sent her a text saying enjoy your dinner player and don't bother contacting me.

 

She apologized, and said i wish things didn't end up this way but she cant take her actions back i left it at that with no reply. Now i have been in NC nearly for a month.. i'm actually surprised she has not initiated any contact with me i heard from the CEO she is currently with Mr Steal your girl 2 days ago i'm actually really heartbroken but i know sometimes i need to let go because i deserve better but sometimes i feel like shes the one i only need.

[MIK3 WB]

Hey man, kind of the same story here.

 

My ex started working in a lab and one of her colleagues starting getting close with her: inviting her to his apartment, texting her all day, going to dinners, movies etc. She maintained she had no interest in him. I gave her my unconditional trust, and that was my mistake.

 

We broke up sometime later because we "didn't have time" for eachother, but I believe the real reason to be was that she was interested in the other guy. 2 weeks later, I get my confirmation as I catch her downtown holding hands with this guy.

 

Started NC after I called her out on it and haven't looked back. Trust me, it's tough at first but you'll eventually get to where I am: not caring, and enjoying your life without her. Work on yourself in the meantime. Join the gym, excel at your job, take up new hobbies -anything.

 

Good luck to you man.