meg1818 Posted June 11, 2016 Posted June 11, 2016 so i need some help, my ex of a yr and a half contacted me this weekend, we had no contact in this time, they blocked me in every form. we had a long distance relationship that didnt end well, i apologized and said whenever youre ready to talk i hope we can start again as friends they came to new york, unblocked me and made a vague statement that new york looks the same, i responded hi how are you are you here? 3 hrs later i get a yes. then i make small talk they say, sorry i cant talk right now, then i pour my heart out saying i miss them and blah blah, then i get it was a mistake to message you, and that i need to move on .. i find these harsh and possibly intentionally cruel, what were they thinking? was this intentional to hurt me. i really tried to make small talk. now i am blocked again. 1
Satu Posted June 11, 2016 Posted June 11, 2016 This kind of upset is easily prevented. *No direct contact. *No sending or receiving of messages. *Block any means he/she might use to contact you. *No replies to anything that gets through your blocks. *No indirect contact through third parties. *De-friend or delete him/her from all social media. *No monitoring of him/her on social media. *No 'little birds' feeding you news. *Tell people that you don't want to know anything about what he/she is doing or saying. Take care. 1
Author meg1818 Posted June 11, 2016 Author Posted June 11, 2016 i still love them thought this was a chance to meet up and talk or talk but i was wrong 1
juniorrocha Posted June 11, 2016 Posted June 11, 2016 It could've been a chance. I mean, how would you know that after a year and a half your ex would behave that way? Honestly I wouldn't. I wouldn't have said I miss them or whatever, but I'd try to keep contact and maybe meet them somewhere, nothing relationship-oriented though. That was indeed cruel. Just block them and keep it that way. You wouldn't want to go through that again. 1
Satu Posted June 11, 2016 Posted June 11, 2016 i still love them thought this was a chance to meet up and talk or talk but i was wrong What kind of love is it that causes prolonged unhappiness? 2
Author meg1818 Posted June 14, 2016 Author Posted June 14, 2016 After a year and half of not speaking to me, my ex gf sends me a text message, i feed into it, tell her i miss her and hope all is well, she finally answers nastily that it was a mistake to message me, i asked why? that i was glad she messaged me that i had so much to tell her, she then tells me that I need to move on, I ask her why she was being so cruel and whats going on? why did you really contact me? and she said she sorry shes in a relationship and cannot talk. well then why unblock me drunk and even message me. I sent her a previous email that if she ever wanted to start again as friends to message me, it was just cruel. why did she do this?
Daxter325 Posted June 14, 2016 Posted June 14, 2016 Bro, do us (and yourself) a favor and don't look back at this person.
juniorrocha Posted June 14, 2016 Posted June 14, 2016 What exactly did she text you? And wow, you're not the first one I see that the ex appears out of the blue, a long time after the break up, only to be cruel like that. It sounds very immature. I would never expect that from anyone. It's simply cruel and stupid. Block her and don't ever let her do that again to you.
Author meg1818 Posted June 14, 2016 Author Posted June 14, 2016 she told me the ferry looks the same, because she used to take it to visit me, which makes it even more cruel, i have , its just hurts after a year no compassion, she started it off like she wanted to see me, drunk is no excuse you were able to unblock me so you were aware. idk maybe she was thinking of me and then felt guilt
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