Dork Vader Posted June 11, 2016 Posted June 11, 2016 My girl froend and I have been dating for 2 an half months. Things have been going fairly well for the most part. We are bith involved in AA. Last night she spoke at a rather large AA meeting and after the meeting we were talking in a group of 4-5 friends. Anyways a guy that had attended the meeting came up to her and they slightly stepped outside of our group. They chatted for a moment then seemed to exchange phone numbers both pulling out their phones and doing what appeared to be an exchange of numbers. This made me extremely uncomfortable and gave me anxiety. She did it right in front of me. After the meeting I dropped off my friend then went to her place and stayed the night. I sort of want to ask about it and find out more information. I also sort of want to talk about what is acceptable interaction for us between opposite sex members of AA. Opinions? Should I just say hey this made me uncomfortable?
GemmaUK Posted June 11, 2016 Posted June 11, 2016 Normally I would say she gave a talk at the meeting and therefore an exchange of numbers would be valid and acceptable. However, you have posted before and I have seen signs (as have you if you are honest with yourself) that she isn't the most considerate of people. I don't think you should say anything, you are two months in and learning about her - learning whether you really want to date her or not. I would be writing a list of pros, cons and yellow/orange/red flags at this point. Don't continue dating just to be in a relationship. This is why so many choose to be single - they would rather be single than in a relationship that makes them unhappy. 1
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