Author jen_jen_heartbroken Posted June 28, 2005 Author Posted June 28, 2005 Still haven't heard from Mr. Elusive since Friday. What's the deal? Why wouldn't he just tell me that he's not interested, when I gave him the opportunity to say so? F'ing games...I hate it. Why can't people be honest instead of leaving you wondering WTF happened and why?
miss-gonewest Posted June 28, 2005 Posted June 28, 2005 Well Jen... according to "He'sJust Not That Into To You" - men would rather throw themself under a bus, than hurt a woman's feelings.... That could explain why he hasn't called - rather than being honest and tell you that maybe this isn't what he wants; its easier to just fade into oblivion then risk offending you (from a purely selfish pov of course). Either that, or he is on the same ship that sunk, far, far out to sea (so far out that there is no phone reception, hell, you can't even put a message in a bottle, its that far away) - with my ex who absolutely promised me that he'd call me this week, and hasn't. Because given how adamant he was, I can only assume that there must have been a total disaster, and that's why he can't call and arrange to exchange our stuff. I have however also come to the conclusion that my ex is a spineless, self-centred coward and that I don't want anything to do with him ever again. Its been a revolutionary kind of week really.
elijahBailey Posted June 28, 2005 Posted June 28, 2005 Originally posted by jen_jen_heartbroken Still haven't heard from Mr. Elusive since Friday. What's the deal? Why wouldn't he just tell me that he's not interested, when I gave him the opportunity to say so? F'ing games...I hate it. Why can't people be honest instead of leaving you wondering WTF happened and why? hey jen, sorry to hear things aren't working out at this moment. But, you really gotta understand.... for most guys.....if the interest is not there, this is precisely what he would do. I would do the same thing I would just let it slide. For me, I really feel it's the best way to 'tell' a girl, especially if it's not an exclusive relationship.
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