she's gorgeous but inexperienced...continue? or lost cause

[ClimateChangeisREAL]

All I hear from you is you wearing your "experience" like a badge of honor and her "inexperience" like a hindrance and a problem that you need to fix. How about respecting her for once and actually respecting her boundaries.

For an 'experienced' man, you sure know nothing about woman! not all woman are going to drop their panties on the third of fourth date.. by the way you're acting you don't sound like you deserve sex from her.

I don't sympathize with you one bit. She has traveled and lived alone, what is that if it's not "experience"? oh because it's not sexual it doesn't count? puh-leaze!

 

And just because she's beautiful doesn't mean she instantly gets the guys. I think Jennifer Aniston is a beautiful actress. But for years the media referred her as a bit of a crazy cat lady being left on the shelf only associated to the relationship with Brad Pitt and the love triangle between her, Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie. Everyone felt sorry for her like " boo hoo beautiful woman can't find love" then all of a sudden beautiful woman did find love, with an equally beautiful man. They got married last year. Her single status for years on end didn't seem to slow her down one bit. She found the right person.

 

I think you have an expectation, like " I'm going to get sex" and when you don't get it it's like you've been really hard done by. No one should feel sorry for you! get over yourself! this is about her! the question is " do you deserve her?" Her single status is not a reflection of like how amazing she is, how amazing she will be, etc...

 

I know this because I was single for years and years and years and highly embarrassed about it. It's people like you who perpetuate this sense of shame and embarrassment over their single status, like it's something that needs to "fess up" and justify, when really there isn't anything to talk about and nothing that needs explaining.

 

If you continue having this attitude " like I've never experienced this before" then you really don't deserve her. She is who she is, if you don't like it, save her the hassle and let her find someone who doesn't see her as a project or a maths problem that needs solving.

 

I am not judging her because she's been single for a long time. I just haven't dated a girl whose been single for a long time, nor have I ever been single for a long time. I have been broken up from my ex for a year. That's the longest I've been single and that's long enough for me. A girl whose been single for 8 years and is as beautiful as she is is a rare thing. It doesn't make any sense to me. That's all.

 

And yeah I have had sex with lots of woman. I am experienced. She has only had one boyfriend ever and that was 8 years ago. So she is rare. I want to get close to her. I don't mind stepping back a bit, but she is a rarity. I want to spend time getting to know her and I will. My question was has anyone out there dated a inexperienced girl before. I like sex I wont deny it. And i don't mind waiting, because I think she is special enough to get to know more exclusively but I'm not waiting for months and months on end. Next time I see her I'm going to kiss her. That's my goal.

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[todreaminblue]

I am not judging her because she's been single for a long time. I just haven't dated a girl whose been single for a long time, nor have I ever been single for a long time. I have been broken up from my ex for a year. That's the longest I've been single and that's long enough for me. A girl whose been single for 8 years and is as beautiful as she is is a rare thing. It doesn't make any sense to me. That's all.

 

And yeah I have had sex with lots of woman. I am experienced. She has only had one boyfriend ever and that was 8 years ago. So she is rare. I want to get close to her. I don't mind stepping back a bit, but she is a rarity. I want to spend time getting to know her and I will. My question was has anyone out there dated a inexperienced girl before. I like sex I wont deny it. And i don't mind waiting, because I think she is special enough to get to know more exclusively but I'm not waiting for months and months on end. Next time I see her I'm going to kiss her. That's my goal.

 

Next time I see her I'm going to kiss her. That's my goal.

 

 

 

are you going to ask her first?

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[William]

Folks, a whole lot of things went wrong with this thread and another moderator took care of that stuff so I'll just thank members for their input and suffice to state this one ran its course.