roflmao Posted June 10, 2016 Posted June 10, 2016 Hey all! So, recently I've been texting with this girl that I had the fortune of matching with on Tinder. We've been texting for over a week now pretty much everyday and so far I'm really enjoying talking to her. We seem to have a lot in common. As a 23 year old guy who has never dated and has a relatively small group of guy friends, I'm obviously really excited that I've found a girl that seems to understand me and is a lot like me in many ways. And all of these things combined are making me fall for this girl really quickly. Now I know a week is a short amount of time, but at this point I'm really confused of what she's trying to get out of this. We've talked about meeting up a couple of times but she (rightfully) thinks it's still too soon and shuts off my invites. However, she says she really likes talking to me. On the other hand she told me she got out of a really long lasting relationship and says stuff like "I'll never be loved again" and "I'll never find anyone again". This sadly makes me wonder if she's even interested in me at all... I really want to have a shot with this girl, but I'm afraid that being this eager might spook her away. On the other hand, I'm also afraid of waiting too long to make a move (like it happened many times before). How should I go about this? Any input is appreciated. Thank you so much.
endlessabyss Posted June 12, 2016 Posted June 12, 2016 Stop talking to her. I know it's hard, because you never had any female attention before, and this is making you feel good; but this is going nowhere. Plus, you met her on Tinder, which is already a red flag. I know it sucks, but the dating market is almost impossible for some. Unless you are entertaining, and have female characteristics, or are extremely handsome, things are going to be ruff. Sorry, mate. Hopefully you move on.
normal person Posted June 12, 2016 Posted June 12, 2016 Doesn't want to meet after a week? Has already started the self pitying, saying "I'll never love again?" I'm struggling to see the appeal. You should've moved on 6 days ago. Plenty of fish in the sea. Best of luck.
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