Laurenjade Posted June 10, 2016 Posted June 10, 2016 Today is my ex's Birthday, we were together 5 years and due to be away in NY for his Birthday. We haven't spoken in almost 4 weeks, he cheated, so I went. I've had good & bad days, some days I've thought I'd never be happy again, some days I've been happier! I've been on 2 dates, nothing in either of them, but I'm 'back out there' and on Tinder! Today, I'm sad. I know what we would be doing & know how happy I'd of been. I can't text him happy birthday because I know he'd talk me round & I WONT be with a cheater. I just needed to get that off my chest!
stillafool Posted June 10, 2016 Posted June 10, 2016 Keep staying strong. You did and are doing the right thing. He is a Cheater and will cheat again, this time just not on you. Go out tonight with friends and have some fun. It's too early to think you could feel anything with another man so I would put off dating until you're stronger. Hang in there! 1
Toodaloo Posted June 10, 2016 Posted June 10, 2016 Yeah but you would also have been ignorant and delusional if you were still with him. Neither of which seem like good ideas to me. So while you feel glum at least you are living in reality and you have a great future ahead of you... Keep marching on and well done! 1
scorpiogirl Posted June 11, 2016 Posted June 11, 2016 Good job staying strong. The firsts after a breakup are so hard. You're already way ahead of me when I went through breakups. I'd also cave and do the birthday and Christmas wishes. And then wished I hadn't. Don't rush with dating. You'll know when you're ready. You're doing great!
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