Giving a guy my number...turnoff?

[Lvkv23]

Question for the guys, would you be turned off if a gal gave you her number?

 

I'm asking because I think a guy may be interested, but the environment we're in makes it very hard for one to approach one another (basically, talk to each other, lol). He's given me many nonverbal signs that he may be interested. I feel like just dropping him a note with my number to get this thing going.

[Shining One]

You're going to get different answers from different people. Speaking for myself, it's not a turn off. Women who aren't afraid to go after what they want are attractive to me.

[katiegrl]

Question for the guys, would you be turned off if a gal gave you her number?

 

I'm asking because I think a guy may be interested, but the environment we're in makes it very hard for one to approach one another (basically, talk to each other, lol). He's given me many nonverbal signs that he may be interested. I feel like just dropping him a note with my number to get this thing going.

 

What are some of the non-verbal signs you're picking up?

 

Re giving him your number, look at it this way.

 

If he's interested, he will be happy you gave him it to him, saves him from approaching you and taking the risk.

 

If he's NOT interested in you, then it doesn't matter anyway, he's not interested regardless.

 

Bottom line, it won't hurt to give it to him. Giving it to him will NOT turn an otherwise interested man off, and if it did, would you want someone like that anyway?

 

Someone so controlling who needs to call ALL the shots and prefers the woman NOT doing any initiating lest he becomes turned off?

 

I sure wouldn't.

 

So yeah go ahead and give it to him, do you have a card or something?

 

There have been a few times when I was out at a coffee cafe and casually chatting with a guy and we exchanged cards... which IMO is a very natural thing to do, nothing forced.

[Tressugar]

If he's not asking you, he doesn't want it. It's plain and simple.

 

If you're gonna give it to him, make him work for it.

 

Lastly, a guy is gonna take your number even if he really doesn't want it because he might think you're going the cookie away for free. You just made it that more easy for him.