frus69 Posted June 9, 2016 Posted June 9, 2016 Op 90% of your posts are about you falling for girls who are taken but at the same time having a flirt/an affair with you. I think you need to fix your own issues 1
bummer Posted June 10, 2016 Posted June 10, 2016 I like how you actually help instead of being so negative like everyone else. She has told me that she wants me and would love to date me but she doesn't want to get pressured into breaking up with him just because I seem perfect to her so far. With respect, your perceived fantasy where she's with perfect you is highly delusional and unhealthy. Take a step outside this soap opera and look at it clearly: She has a boyfriend. <- that's a period, end of story. How would you feel, even if your relationship was rocky, if some other man who clearly wants a piece of the pie, started giving pep talks to your gf? Not cool. Even if you are helping your motives are to break them up for your gain not hers necessarily. Where will your relationship go? Based on a rebound, based on talking crap about someone else? That is the least healthy start to a new relationship I can imagine. As most have said, give her space, if she breaks up you'll have a clearer conscience you didn't just force her to it.
WellHelloThere Posted June 10, 2016 Posted June 10, 2016 I like how you actually help instead of being so negative like everyone else. She has told me that she wants me and would love to date me but she doesn't want to get pressured into breaking up with him just because I seem perfect to her so far. We aren't being negative. You came here for feedback. You are playing a game. She is playing a game. None of this is real. Sometimes good advice isn't what you want to hear. She is dishing out BS, you are taking it and trying to rationalize it. Did you ever think about why the last time you did this it didn't work out? And why out of the millions of actual single women, you are going after one that isn't single...again? 1
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