Should I give up on her?

[Hulahoops88]

I can't get over my ex girlfriend as I think she still has feelings for me. We fought a lot and in a nutshell, we broke up over insecurities and jealousies of other people when it was just social media childish paranoia. I had commitment issues too and we were doing long distance but I have moved back to try things again but I am not getting anything but silent treatment.

 

Having said that, my ex still creeps me online and kept in touch with close friends and family of mine. She is also still very upset at me but has almost completely shut me out of her life. Should I give up or is here something there from her side behind the anger and disappointment. I am heartbroken truth be told. Thanks

[bummer]

Stay NC and move on with yourself. Without more details I am assuming these insecurities have filled holes where joy once lived. You can second guess her feelings but if youre wrong it will hurt much worse if you reach out first ans find out shes not interested.

 

Just make yourself better for the next girl. More available, better able to commit, etc.

 

Anything short of an apology and desire to work it out from her requires no response from you. Those will be crumbs.

[juniorrocha]

I think you should leave her alone and focus on you. Maybe she's needing some time alone. Regardless, you can't just sit and wait for her to come back one day. Maybe after some time has passed, she may contact you or something and then you decide whether you should reply or not. For now, go no contact.

[smudge21]

You're focusing too much on the little breadcrumbs of info you are going out of your way to find. Seriously, she's checking out your friends on social media? That means nothing. Unless she's reaching out to you, you need to block this out and let it go. As she's given you the silent treatment when you've reached out, then that's all you need to focus on.