Sneakerhead Posted June 7, 2016 Posted June 7, 2016 A little background. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 9 months now, it has been great yet rocky at times and we live an hour apart(it doesn't bother me cause I'm always willing to drive to her). Anyways, before I met her she had a brief hook-up stint with a few guys, no big deal or at least I didn't think so. One of her ex hook-ups has now become one of her close friends and it's starting to piss me off. He texts her non-stop all day every day and sends stupid pictures of his cats. She doesn't think it's a big deal but it is. When she's out with him and I text her she never responds to me or if she does it's always hours later. The other day her friend let me know that she's going for drinks with my gf for a few hours after work, and crap that's great cause she has little to no female friends, what my gf failed to tell me but her friend did was that the ex hook up was going over her house to take a few hour nap to avoid traffic. I trust her, but I can't trust the dude. This same situation happened to me a few years ago and caused me to get a divorce. She keeps on constantly saying he's just a friend and that's it. They constantly go to dinner every week and with her kids too. I'm tired of being lied to, cheated on etc. I'm getting stronger feelings for her and I don't want to end it, but what should I do? Sorry for the long rant
SugarLips72 Posted June 7, 2016 Posted June 7, 2016 Her keeping in contact constantly with a recent hook up would be a deal breaker for me. That tells me she is keeping her options open. In fact her seeing him even and going to dinner is insane. She obviously likes him. Should you give up? Yes. She has no respect for your relationship by hanging out with this guy. 1
Buddhist Posted June 7, 2016 Posted June 7, 2016 I trust her, but I can't trust the dude. This same situation happened to me a few years ago and caused me to get a divorce. She keeps on constantly saying he's just a friend and that's it. They constantly go to dinner every week and with her kids too. I'm tired of being lied to, cheated on etc. I'm getting stronger feelings for her and I don't want to end it, but what should I do? Sorry for the long rant You don't trust her because it takes two people to cheat. Unless he's raping her, he can't force her to cheat on you. She'd have to be a party to it. And since you don't trust her being in this relationship is just going to push all your cheating buttons and drive you insane, creating a self fulfilling prophecy. End it now because there isn't any trust between you two. Be honest about that. 2
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