boud1994 Posted June 6, 2016 Posted June 6, 2016 I have recently started talking with a girl in my college program and we have really hit it off. The other day, she kept telling me she was home alone, and that she didn't want to eat alone and she wanted me to come over though she then told me she was on her period. I told her to come out with me and my friends or to come get me, and she said she was too tired so I let it go. This girl is apparently "seeing someone" (I think she's lying to make me jealous, and keeps telling me it's nothing serious, and their just talking, and this guy has asked her out many times though she keeps putting him off and he just asks about her day though all of those things I have done myself with her and though she asked me to come over many times (and not this other guy) and said maybe to having dinner together next weekend. This girl knows that I have noticed her in class (as she has asked me if I have noticed her) though we never actually talk in class (because she doesn't like my friends). She vents to me if something is upsetting her, and even mentioned marriage (the fact that she is nowhere near getting married). Is she into me? 1
preraph Posted June 6, 2016 Posted June 6, 2016 It sounds pretty much like a friendzone because she's open about the guy she's interested in and talking about her period. 1
Mrin Posted June 6, 2016 Posted June 6, 2016 It sounds pretty much like a friendzone because she's open about the guy she's interested in and talking about her period. It is either that or she's into him and just playing it very awk. I think you could read the period comment as her just realizing that it sounded like a booty call and wanting to correct that. And the phantom BF thing could be a juvenile attempt to make you jealous. Try kissing her and find out. You'll learn one way or the other real quick. 1
Satu Posted June 6, 2016 Posted June 6, 2016 She's hungry for attention. Thats neither good nor bad, but you need to manage your expectations. She likes you, but only in a superficial way. She thinks you're 'nice.' Take care. 1
Author boud1994 Posted June 6, 2016 Author Posted June 6, 2016 Here's the thing, she always texts me after 12am, and just asked me to go out for dinner a second time, what am I dealing with?
Buddhist Posted June 7, 2016 Posted June 7, 2016 I think the better question to ask here is.....do you want someone like this into you? She sounds dependant and manipulative, that wouldn't be my first choice in a relationship partner.
Author boud1994 Posted June 7, 2016 Author Posted June 7, 2016 She just asked me if I was thinking of dating again because i just broke up with my girlfriend..is that a good sign?
tinkerbell16 Posted June 7, 2016 Posted June 7, 2016 She just asked me if I was thinking of dating again because i just broke up with my girlfriend..is that a good sign? She IS definitely interested in you. Decide if you like her (given her wacky nature) and if the answer is yes... make your move.
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