grokcahsevol Posted June 5, 2016 Posted June 5, 2016 Okay, I haven't been here in a long time. So a quick recap. I met my ex at the age of 15. I male, her.. female. Before we met, she was with a girl, at the age of 13. When we started dating, everything was great, hence we lasted 9 years. Last July, she told me she need space and thinks we need a break. Whatever, I knew what was happening and someone else (the girl from 13 years ago) was in the picture. We didn't speak for 5 months, they dated, she started missing me and everything reminded her of me. She then reached out and spoke on the phone a few times before meeting. She told me she logged into my email and facebook, which she didn't like what she saw. She saw I was talking to other people and that I was going to Europe. Fast forward >>>> I went to Europe and she knew I was talking to other girls. She called me a few times while I was there and she told me " I know what I want... I want to be with you and not her. I didn't show any emotion when she told me this and she was upset cause I didn't care for it much. Eventually I got back to the states and she was all over me, I got back in February, and we pretty much hung out everyday up until 5 days ago. During this time, she was still talking to the girl ex. However, the girl ex had no idea that we were hanging out and sleeping together since I got back and she probably still doesn't know. So all in one night this is what happened. We had drunk sex and I may have came in her, which she was really upset about as she wasn't on birth control. I don't recall if I did or not, but we got Plan B the next day. Also that night, I took her phone and put a snapchat of my face on her story... yes, her "ex" g/f saw it and went insane. Somehow got my number and started to tell me "time to go home" yeah, okay. Her and the girl get in a huge fight and my ex is mad cause she know nows that we have been hanging out. The next day after getting Plan B she tells me I have to go and that she can't do this $hit anymore with me and her. She has been very conflicted between who she wants to be with. One day she loves me and only wants me, then she misses her and wants to be with her. Anyway, that day, we hug, kiss, say I love you and leave. I didn't call or text her for 4 days. She then texted me saying out of nowhere "Hey, hope you had fun today, Jaime (my exes best friend) told me you and john (Jaimes boyfriend) went out... That made me really happy" follow by "I've just been doing my own thing and working but I'm home now prob gonna watch a show or something idk" I say "Okay, yeah we had fun" she says "good" Why did she randomly text me that? Also, a quick background on the girl she is seeing... shes mentally unstable from the stories she tell me, she takes pills for depression. Last time she told her "I can't do this anymore, we need to end this" she took a knife out, blocked the doorway so my ex couldn't leave, started punching her self in the head and said "If you leave me I'll kill myself" This was more of a vent and maybe some help on decoding that message... Thanks
DreamP Posted June 6, 2016 Posted June 6, 2016 What are you doing? Time to move on, no contact style. This is way too much drama
broodneach Posted June 6, 2016 Posted June 6, 2016 I don't think you want any piece of this situation.
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