Sunnymae Posted June 4, 2016 Posted June 4, 2016 I'm trying to get together with a guy I met, but when I suggested getting together on the weekend he responds by saying I don't know what my weekend plans are. It's frustrating. It's like what does a person say to that, because he's not saying he has plans. But it's like he saying don't ask me until I hear back from someone else I wanted to go out with. What should I ask him.
TXGuy Posted June 4, 2016 Posted June 4, 2016 I think you should ask him to do something specific on a specific day at a specific time. Something he can simply agree to or counter. I applaud you for actually taking the initiative. Many women don't. And, I know that it is frustrating when you ask about weekend plans and things don't fall neatly into place. But I've found that I had little luck with such wishy-washy invitations. Asking someone out with specific plans has a much higher acceptance rate. I bet you have heard some of your girlfriends complain about guys trying to ask them out by saying something along the lines of 'we should hang out sometime.' Most women hate such (semi) invitations. As it turns out, men don't think much of them either. It is a low effort invitation that has a low likelihood of getting an enthusiastic response. Don't worry about not knowing. It takes a lot of guys years of tepid results before they figure out this simple life hack that makes dating so much easier. 1
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