aussietigerwolf Posted June 8, 2016 Share Posted June 8, 2016 hahaha...imaging getting a text from a guy " sorry had to run because you look nothing like your pic!" Oh, I have a real one for you lol. "Sorry, I'm just after some fun and you don't look easy" Link to post Share on other sites
mortensorchid Posted June 8, 2016 Share Posted June 8, 2016 He ditched you. I'm truly sorry that he was so cruel as to do that to you. He probably used that phone call as an excuse in case you chased after and asked him where he was going. You were not cute enough for him (from the neck up or from the neck down), or your personality was annoying to him, or he thought you were crazy, and he walked out on you. People are cruel, and they are cruel in ways you can't imagine until it happens to you. Take solace in this: 1) Karma is a real bitch when it wants to be, 2) You got out now while the getting was still good, and 3) Imagine how horrible he could have treated you if you had pursued things further. Don't believe me? A few years ago I had an internet date with someone, he was arrogant and rude to me. He literally walked away from me after he had paid the check. He said "Bye." I was blown away someone could be so mean to someone else, truly. I never heard a word from him again naturally, of which I am happy. Two guys I went out with who were abusive towards me (one emotionally, the other emotionally, verbally and physically) as they broke up with me? Well ... The first rebounded to a girl who was absolutely, positively crazy as hell. She threw tantrums, alienated him from his friends/family, went through his things (email, phone, etc.), ruined his sister's wedding by showing up and crashing it when the sister told him she did not want her in the wedding itself, cheated on him multiple times - you name it, she did it. The second who was more abusive? He married a trash woman after knowing her for 6 weeks about one year after he broke it off with me. He said he didn't want children and he married a woman with two children, one from each previous marriage. He said it wasn't going to be a permanent set up until I lost weight and quit smoking. After I had lost about 30 of the 40 lbs I would eventually loose and had quit smoking for 6 weeks, he was furious with me because it took me too long to do it. I hung around with people who used drugs (like everyone else does), and his next door neighbors were busted for a meth lab. He was so angry with me, I'd never seen that side of him, the rage, the anger, the demand that everything be his way. And then, the woman he married took advantage of him. She had him supporting her, her kids, buying her a trailer in North Carolina, paying for all her trips to NC to "spend time with her daughter", and even got him to pay for her daughter's education. The man was so nieve he did not see what wasn't before him or unless you told him of something. Then after three years (two of them living apart), she divorced him, married husband #4 and has since divorced husband #4. You were lucky, as I was with these guys. You deserve better. Link to post Share on other sites
Emilia Posted June 8, 2016 Share Posted June 8, 2016 I was the one who asked him out for coffee. This is why it's best to wait for the guy to ask you out. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Zippy2000 Posted June 8, 2016 Share Posted June 8, 2016 (edited) LOL what a coward, his wingman called him. They probably made a plan, something like "Follow and keep your distance. If I make this movement, that's the sign, you call me on my phone". I agree with this! LOL A lot of people here are over thinking and analysing this way too much and writing paragraphs about what happened. Its simple. He`s a coward and wasnt man enough to even have the deceny to say he had to go. HOW RUDE! I had a female friend who went on a date. They went to a pub and walked in. She asked what he wanted to drink and turned around to order a pint. Got the drinks in and the guy disappeared! Some people just dont know how to handle awkward situations. Edited June 8, 2016 by Zippy2000 Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted June 8, 2016 Share Posted June 8, 2016 I went on a date for coffee with a guy that I met online. I was the one who asked him out for coffee. I am 20 and he is 25. We talked for a few minutes while we were waiting in line. We never got coffee. All of the sudden his phone was ringing and then he answered it. He stepped outside to take his phone call and then he never came back. I texted him to ask where he was and then he never texted me back. Is it my fault that he left early? Your fault? Your fault that he is so rude! Oh no this is not your fault. You asked out a bad mannered, rude, thoughtless coward. Do not be in anyway upset by this. Just be grateful that it didn't go anywhere and laugh at yourself. At least thats what I would do! Link to post Share on other sites
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