He is TAKEN..Yet he still behaves like he is AVAILABLE..experience needed

[itfigures]

GEEZ...This question was so good that I thought I would post it as a new topic.....Who here has had experience with this sort of thing???

 

SOMEONE PLEASE!!!

Answer this question:

 

What are the signals that guys put out to show that they are "available"?

 

 

****and what if the bf seems to put out these signals whenever there are chicks milling about, yet he has a girlfriend?

 

IS it POSSIBLE for said bf to still be in love or love his gf yet give out these "available"signals with no intention of following through???????//

[westernxer]

So tell me, do you like this guy?

[Opium]

A man always puts out signals it's just a matter of who's paying attention. Just like woman, men crave attention and though your bf may love you and care for you he still feels he has an obligation to look good.

 

Self-confidence isn't a bad thing. Now if he's doing something to disrespect than I can see where you're coming from but if he's just a cocky muthaf***er, what can you do, your dating him and you know him better than anyone else here. I say tell him how you feel and see if he can minimize the acting, and see what he says you just might be overreacting.

[TUDOR]

Originally posted by itfigures

 

 

****and what if the bf seems to put out these signals whenever there are chicks milling about, yet he has a girlfriend?

 

IS it POSSIBLE for said bf to still be in love or love his gf yet give out these "available"signals with no intention of following through???????//

 

I think both woman and men are guilty of testing whether they still got "it" after being committed to someone. It doesn't mean they intend to follow through but some times it is a confidence booster to know that you can still turn heads. I suggest you tell your bf that doing it front of you hurts your feelings and not let him create a bad habit.

[itfigures]

Okay....You all got me!!!!

 

EVERYONE gives out signals...myself included....I guess mine just arent as obvious...

[crazy_grl]

If you're talking about these kind of signals that you posted in your other thread:

 

Originally posted by itfigures

I have been with him for almost 2 years. We live together, no kids. Last nite he asked me to go to the dept store to pick up some clothes for his aunt and 2 little nephews. (never mind why) So I went. We started off looking at kids clothes and then he makes a HUGE beeline towards the bra/pantie/nitegown section where there just happens to be 3 chicks wearing boobie shirts, big earings, painted on peddle pushers with high heels (ew) and of course they are making a big production in a true "look at me" fashion. Well, he stands there, in the nitegown isle seemingly VERY intrigued with this shirt and pants pajama set that is at least a size too small. I have got my anteneas up...and finally after 5 minutes when I could bear it no more...

 

I walked up to him and he was staring intently at this same pajama thingie apparently trying to change it to a different color or make it bigger with his mind....i mean come on, 5 minutes??? so I walked up to him (meanwhile, boobie chicks are milling about in a true come hither fashion) and proceeded to wrench the keys out of his hands to which he struggled....and then gave in.

 

Everyone does not give out those kinds of signals. That sounds more like flat out flirting than just giving off signals brought on by confidence.