LoveOverLust Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 So I have been casually dating a girl I met in one of my college classes for the past two months. We have been on a ton of dates (always just us two), and texted pretty frequently (every other day at least). All of our dates were excellent, and there was definitely a romantic connection between us. We would kiss, flirt, had sexual tension, etc. However, I kind of told her from the start that I wasn't looking for anything serious and whatever happens, happens (in terms of a relationship). My intentions weren't to be FWB or anything of the sort, but I did enjoy spending time and talking to her. She always seemed very engaged and interested in me until last weekend. I was probably asking her to hang out too much and felt like an idiot. I called her and asked if she wanted to go see a movie (horrible idea but it was pretty late and we are both 20) and she firmly declined which was odd. On Monday I told her I could tell I was being too extra, and would back off. No contact since, so I'm pretty safe in assuming the fling has come to an end. I am going to keep some dignity and let it go, but I was curious on what the wise members of this site thought about it.
deadparrot Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 She may have met someone, or just decided that a casual, no-commitments relationship wasn't what she wanted.
Sunnymae Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 Yes, keep your dignity, I think you kind of blew this one, chalk up as a learning experience. I think you misrepresented yourself. Granted you changed your mind, and you came across as being fickeled. First you tell her that you don't want a serious relationship,but you two are dating texting, and then you're asking her out more and more, wanting to go out late. Maybe the mixed signals scared her off. Or most likely scenario, she wants to start dating other people.
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