Thuyle Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 Last week I text him and ask him if he wanted to watch a movie and grab a drink with me. He didn't text me when I ask and end up calling me apologizing how he was working 18 hours that day. I felt bad because I assumed he didn't like me as much and forgot that he had two jobs at the time. So when he called he told me that he will make it up for me and I told him that I want to go to a bar and watch a movie. The thing is we didn't set a time, just a day and place. I haven't heard from him from our last phone call and our date is on Saturday. Should I be the one texting him to confirm the date?
frus69 Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 Who is this? Some guy you just met? Was your last conversation a week ago? IMO doesn't matter you text or not, doesn't matter he goes out with you this time or blows you again, he is not too interested.
thecrucible Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 Just go ahead and do it. Send him a text the morning of the date and ask what time he wants to meet that night. That's not going to look bad and he'll know you're as interested as he is then.
Author Thuyle Posted June 3, 2016 Author Posted June 3, 2016 Our conversation was four days ago and we have been talking for a month now.
soyou Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 You dont give us a detailed context so here is my 5 cent. I think that the guy is not that interested in. If he was, he could have set up a time and place right on the day he called you. It feels to me that he wants to keep you as an back-up option. In case, all of his plans in Sat fall out, then he will puzz you up for the meet-up. If you decide to give this a shot, then you can text him casually something like "hey, should we meet at this place around this time?" and see how he responds to it. Dont give him the option to choose which time it's convenient for him. If he responds immediately and positively, there go have it. If he doesnt, then you know for sure that this guy is not worth your time and effort
smudge21 Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 As the date has been made but not confirmed in details, I reckon one last text from you to check times is fine. If there's no response, then make other plans, maybe even a text to tell him so. By doing this you at least clear your head rather than hang around thinking about it all and living in limbo. You do all you can, and walk away head held high. Also remember that although you have free time, you possibly enjoy more contact, doesn't mean other people are the same. For him this could be perfectly normal and just he way his life is. Hence why that final text should confirm things.
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