Jack420 Posted June 2, 2016 Posted June 2, 2016 (edited) Hi all, below you can see parts of a Facebook chat between a girl I have a huge crush on. I find her very difficult to read as a person so I need your assistance. This is very important to me so please read it all and help. Everything here is happening on Facebook unless written otherwise. First of all I first talked to her a month ago by wishing her happy birthday and then when I thought the chat is gonna end, she asks me "How r u?" and the chat continiued since then (over 1200 messages in 1 month). Her responses are very different each time, once she's responding positive with smileys, other times I get a feeling that she doesn't care and writes "Oh", "Yep", "Ok"... She talks a lot how she wants to do things such as: HER: "I'm looking at clothes at the mall" ME: "Look for me too haha" HER: "I'd do it if you were here" And when I asked her if she has time she says I'm tired or busy and stuff. I also noticed that sometimes when we see each other at school, I'm walking by and she could easily spot me but I just think that she doesn't wanna say hi, when we obviously both see each other I get a wave or she says hi. Not a long ago this happened (short version): HER: "Do you drink alcohol?" ME: "Yeah I do" HER: "Would you like to get a drink sometime?" ME: "Yes I'd like to do it ofc, you might die laughing haha" HER: "Hahah okay I accept the invitation" --> what?? ME: "You can bring girl-friends if you want" HER: "I don't think so, one of them might steal you" (from her ??) ... And since then she once couldn't come due to tiredness and isn't talking about it either -- when we were arranging it she was excited... It happened twice that I did not click her after around 3 days to chat because I had nothing to say. The fourth day: ME: "Hey there, I'm not seeing you around" HER: "I'm sleeping hahah, how come that you're not writing for so long?" ... Why doesn't she just click me on FB? Other mention-worth things: - she gave me her phone number for future summer break meetings (which I doubt will happen) - she sent me a :* once - she is probably physically attracted to me - she often asks me to send her pictures (I sent her pics from a wedding, drawings, from fitness, from a walk...) If you need any other info ask me please. Help. Edited June 2, 2016 by Jack420 title correction
preraph Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 What isn't clear? She's flirty. You seem interested. You've talked about having a drink. Ask her out.
basil67 Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 Perhaps if she hit you over the head with a sledgehammer she may be obvious enough Seriously mate, a green light doesn't get more obvious than this!
they Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 Did you two actually read it ... she makes excuses to reject his invitations.
Author Jack420 Posted June 3, 2016 Author Posted June 3, 2016 I would have asked her out already but as I'm saying I'm getting mixed responses. Meanwhile she's texting me kinda a lot of Facebook, we barely talk in real-life. She does the first move (giving phone number, asking me for a drink etc...) and then it seems that she doesn't wanna hear about it.
they Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 (edited) Oooh I thought you did ask her out "And since then she once couldn't come due to tiredness" Shes probably getting tired of you not doing anything. (yawn) Example : HER: "Would you like to get a drink sometime?" ME: "Yes I'd like to do it ofc, you might die laughing haha" Instead say: ME: You, me, 10:30, drink at X. (Not like that .. adapt it to your writing style.) OR just ask "okay we can meet at X, when are you free" Edited June 3, 2016 by they
Author Jack420 Posted June 3, 2016 Author Posted June 3, 2016 We will probably go out this weekend because we've talked a lot about the meeting -- please stay tuned and I will tell you how it went. If you have any advices for real life date/meeting please tell me.
privategal Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 Say "hey, Ive asked you out a few times now and Im serious so when your schedule works out, give me a day thats open and we will plan it for sure" If you want to go out...be direct.
planb1973 Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 Say "hey, Ive asked you out a few times now and Im serious so when your schedule works out, give me a day thats open and we will plan it for sure" If you want to go out...be direct. I second this. Being direct is a huge turn on!!!
preraph Posted June 3, 2016 Posted June 3, 2016 I would just add that a girl wouldn't have been able to say "I'm too tired" if you hadn't asked her out for the same day, which is impolite. Ask at least a day or two ahead of time.
Recommended Posts