EnigmaXOXO Posted June 25, 2005 Posted June 25, 2005 cut your hair! Yeah, cut the hair too. Noooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
phidelt127 Posted June 28, 2005 Posted June 28, 2005 Ok, here's the deal. I'm an asian american male that has a good job (not a physicist, but a good job), funny, decent looking for an asian, blah blah blah. Pretty much what you have. I won't lie to you, sometimes I feel like I'll never meet the right person, or I'll never get laid again, or I'll never get married and all that. There was a time in my life that I was in your position. Coincidentally, that time also fell at the time when I too had long hair. So, I have to say, cut it. Also get some confidence in yourself. Women are drawn more to confidence than anything else. There are plenty of hot white guys where I live and especially where I work, but because I'm confident that I can get the same girls that they can, I do. I mean you do have to dress well, and be able to hold a conversation, but seriously man, if you think you can get a date, you probably can. Women, tell me if I'm wrong. Women are sick of hearing the same stuff all the time. Most attractive women get hit on ALL THE TIME, and they hear the same stuff ALL THE TIME. "You are so beautiful", "Can I buy you a drink?", "Don't I know you from somewhere?". These lines are the futile attempts to pick up women by unconfident men. Be different. And for the love of God, get out of the lab! Go somewhere where you are going to meet women! Like the one dude said, you're not going to meet many eligible women 20,000 feet in the air! However, I know you're 35, but do NOT go to a singles bar and do NOT do online dating. There's too much deception. If you're like me, you probably look very good for your age. I'm sure you could pass for 25 - 28. SO, get to a college town with one of your other underprivleged physicist friends and talk to everyone you can. BUT like I said, be confident and don't use dumb lines. Here's the thing. If you get rejected, you do. Forget about it and move on the the next. It's not the end of the world. I'm talking from experience in probably the most similar of situations in comparison to yours. So, at the risk of sounding like a weight-loss infomercial, I'll say "If it worked for me, it'll DEFINITELY work for you" Send emails if you want more suggestions.
alphamale Posted June 28, 2005 Posted June 28, 2005 Originally posted by phidelt127 I'll say "If it worked for me, it'll DEFINITELY work for you" good advice PHIDELT127
newbby Posted June 28, 2005 Posted June 28, 2005 quote:Originally posted by alphamale yes, a nerdy woman Alpha may have accidentally stumbled upon a point. Perhaps you (OBBH) should go out, or get online, and try to meet some unattractive, single women, with whom you can interact and from whom you can learn. In my experience, it's relatively easy to get a woman in whom you're not interested to display "buying signals" to you. Trust me, anybody can meet ugly people online, even if they don't mean to. since when does nerdy=ugly???
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