too_risky Posted June 24, 2005 Posted June 24, 2005 My ex and I broke up in April after a 3 year relationship. I took him for granted and he got sick of it and when someone else showed him interest, he left me. He wasn't perfect either but I do want him back. We haven't talked or had any contact at all in 3 weeks. I sent him some stuff that was his (in the mail as he is long distance from me) along with a letter. The letter was light hearted and nice and at the end I told him I loved him 100% unconditionally. No matter what he did or what he choose. He sent me an email today thanking me for the stuff and said at the end that he "still loved me too". What should I take from this? Do I respond at all?
ConfusedInOC Posted June 24, 2005 Posted June 24, 2005 Originally posted by too_risky My ex and I broke up in April after a 3 year relationship. I took him for granted and he got sick of it and when someone else showed him interest, he left me. He wasn't perfect either but I do want him back. We haven't talked or had any contact at all in 3 weeks. I sent him some stuff that was his (in the mail as he is long distance from me) along with a letter. The letter was light hearted and nice and at the end I told him I loved him 100% unconditionally. No matter what he did or what he choose. He sent me an email today thanking me for the stuff and said at the end that he "still loved me too". What should I take from this? Do I respond at all? I gave you this advice in another thread. Wait. Wait. Wait. That is all you can do while he is in another relationship.
Author too_risky Posted June 24, 2005 Author Posted June 24, 2005 I obviously didn't like your advice that's why i left that forum but you seem to be insistent on giving it to me for some reason. If it works so well then why haven't you gotten your ex back?
simon_uk Posted June 24, 2005 Posted June 24, 2005 Originally posted by too_risky I obviously didn't like your advice that's why i left that forum but you seem to be insistent on giving it to me for some reason. If it works so well then why haven't you gotten your ex back? Ok well if you didnt like CIOC's advice then the best thing for you to do is to call your ex up every 5 minutes and profess your undying love for him, this should do the trick. the reason CIOC hasnt got his ex back is because she doesnt want to come back (yet if at all) the same reason you have not got your ex back. If you want him to 'maybe' come back then I would suggest you DO listen to CIOC's advice OR not bother asking again. Whether you like his advice or not, he is RIGHT!
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